Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
They damage themselves going down this path and these thoughts.What a dumb woman. Christ.
A manyI posted the article above that the video is based on.
What % of women are like this???
It's alot of them. What makes it worse is for a man to continue to love her and be of service.The scary part.......is this type of behavior and thinking in women may be more COMMON than UNCOMMON
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I got that impression from paul e.lam old youtube videos too, also Rich Co oper old youtube videosThe scary part.......is this type of behavior and thinking in women may be more COMMON than UNCOMMON.
I try to maintain a balanced perspective regarding genders.
But from what I have experienced, WOMEN are more likely to:
-get bored
-get resentful in a marriage
-think they are missing out on something
- fail to appreciate what they have
-always want more
-think the grass is greener
-fail to realize how good they have it
-have a senseof entitlement, "I DESERVE more"
-are more selfish
-pull the trigger on divorce, in pursuit of their selfish desire for more, regardless of who it hurst or tha damge they do to other human beings. Then regret it later.
In America, probably at least 1/4 - 1/3 of them.I posted the article above that the video is based on.
What % of women are like this???
Gawdfvckingdamn... That's terrible.In America, probably at least 1/4 - 1/3 of them.
I'm just guessing, it could be lower, or higher, but American women are the most narcisstic and BDP on the planet.Gawdfvckingdamn... That's terrible.
They are entitled and encouraged to control men. Many of the built in systems see things this way. ( Police, Judges, etc ). Men do pretty well in situations where they take care of themselves using a lawyer.I'm just guessing, it could be lower, or higher, but American women are the most narcisstic and BDP on the planet.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
good list,But from what I have experienced, WOMEN are more likely to:
-get bored
-get resentful in a marriage
-think they are missing out on something
- fail to appreciate what they have
-always want more
-think the grass is greener
-fail to realize how good they have it
-have a senseof entitlement, "I DESERVE more"
-are more selfish
-pull the trigger on divorce, in pursuit of their selfish desire for more, regardless of who it hurst or tha damge they do to other human beings. Then regret it later.
Your bullet points are bang on. This is the results of letting your emotions make your decisions.The scary part.......is this type of behavior and thinking in women may be more COMMON than UNCOMMON.
I try to maintain a balanced perspective regarding genders.
But from what I have experienced, WOMEN are more likely to:
-get bored
-get resentful in a marriage
-think they are missing out on something
- fail to appreciate what they have
-always want more
-think the grass is greener
-fail to realize how good they have it
-have a senseof entitlement, "I DESERVE more"
-are more selfish
-pull the trigger on divorce, in pursuit of their selfish desire for more, regardless of who it hurst or tha damge they do to other human beings. Then regret it later.