Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
They damage themselves going down this path and these thoughts.What a dumb woman. Christ.
A manyI posted the article above that the video is based on.
What % of women are like this???
It's alot of them. What makes it worse is for a man to continue to love her and be of service.The scary part.......is this type of behavior and thinking in women may be more COMMON than UNCOMMON
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I got that impression from paul e.lam old youtube videos too, also Rich Co oper old youtube videosThe scary part.......is this type of behavior and thinking in women may be more COMMON than UNCOMMON.
I try to maintain a balanced perspective regarding genders.
But from what I have experienced, WOMEN are more likely to:
-get bored
-get resentful in a marriage
-think they are missing out on something
- fail to appreciate what they have
-always want more
-think the grass is greener
-fail to realize how good they have it
-have a senseof entitlement, "I DESERVE more"
-are more selfish
-pull the trigger on divorce, in pursuit of their selfish desire for more, regardless of who it hurst or tha damge they do to other human beings. Then regret it later.
In America, probably at least 1/4 - 1/3 of them.I posted the article above that the video is based on.
What % of women are like this???
Gawdfvckingdamn... That's terrible.In America, probably at least 1/4 - 1/3 of them.
I'm just guessing, it could be lower, or higher, but American women are the most narcisstic and BDP on the planet.Gawdfvckingdamn... That's terrible.
They are entitled and encouraged to control men. Many of the built in systems see things this way. ( Police, Judges, etc ). Men do pretty well in situations where they take care of themselves using a lawyer.I'm just guessing, it could be lower, or higher, but American women are the most narcisstic and BDP on the planet.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
good list,But from what I have experienced, WOMEN are more likely to:
-get bored
-get resentful in a marriage
-think they are missing out on something
- fail to appreciate what they have
-always want more
-think the grass is greener
-fail to realize how good they have it
-have a senseof entitlement, "I DESERVE more"
-are more selfish
-pull the trigger on divorce, in pursuit of their selfish desire for more, regardless of who it hurst or tha damge they do to other human beings. Then regret it later.
Your bullet points are bang on. This is the results of letting your emotions make your decisions.The scary part.......is this type of behavior and thinking in women may be more COMMON than UNCOMMON.
I try to maintain a balanced perspective regarding genders.
But from what I have experienced, WOMEN are more likely to:
-get bored
-get resentful in a marriage
-think they are missing out on something
- fail to appreciate what they have
-always want more
-think the grass is greener
-fail to realize how good they have it
-have a senseof entitlement, "I DESERVE more"
-are more selfish
-pull the trigger on divorce, in pursuit of their selfish desire for more, regardless of who it hurst or tha damge they do to other human beings. Then regret it later.