Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
They damage themselves going down this path and these thoughts.What a dumb woman. Christ.
A manyI posted the article above that the video is based on.
What % of women are like this???
It's alot of them. What makes it worse is for a man to continue to love her and be of service.The scary part.......is this type of behavior and thinking in women may be more COMMON than UNCOMMON
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I got that impression from paul e.lam old youtube videos too, also Rich Co oper old youtube videosThe scary part.......is this type of behavior and thinking in women may be more COMMON than UNCOMMON.
I try to maintain a balanced perspective regarding genders.
But from what I have experienced, WOMEN are more likely to:
-get bored
-get resentful in a marriage
-think they are missing out on something
- fail to appreciate what they have
-always want more
-think the grass is greener
-fail to realize how good they have it
-have a senseof entitlement, "I DESERVE more"
-are more selfish
-pull the trigger on divorce, in pursuit of their selfish desire for more, regardless of who it hurst or tha damge they do to other human beings. Then regret it later.
In America, probably at least 1/4 - 1/3 of them.I posted the article above that the video is based on.
What % of women are like this???
Gawdfvckingdamn... That's terrible.In America, probably at least 1/4 - 1/3 of them.
I'm just guessing, it could be lower, or higher, but American women are the most narcisstic and BDP on the planet.Gawdfvckingdamn... That's terrible.
They are entitled and encouraged to control men. Many of the built in systems see things this way. ( Police, Judges, etc ). Men do pretty well in situations where they take care of themselves using a lawyer.I'm just guessing, it could be lower, or higher, but American women are the most narcisstic and BDP on the planet.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
good list,But from what I have experienced, WOMEN are more likely to:
-get bored
-get resentful in a marriage
-think they are missing out on something
- fail to appreciate what they have
-always want more
-think the grass is greener
-fail to realize how good they have it
-have a senseof entitlement, "I DESERVE more"
-are more selfish
-pull the trigger on divorce, in pursuit of their selfish desire for more, regardless of who it hurst or tha damge they do to other human beings. Then regret it later.
Your bullet points are bang on. This is the results of letting your emotions make your decisions.The scary part.......is this type of behavior and thinking in women may be more COMMON than UNCOMMON.
I try to maintain a balanced perspective regarding genders.
But from what I have experienced, WOMEN are more likely to:
-get bored
-get resentful in a marriage
-think they are missing out on something
- fail to appreciate what they have
-always want more
-think the grass is greener
-fail to realize how good they have it
-have a senseof entitlement, "I DESERVE more"
-are more selfish
-pull the trigger on divorce, in pursuit of their selfish desire for more, regardless of who it hurst or tha damge they do to other human beings. Then regret it later.