Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
They damage themselves going down this path and these thoughts.What a dumb woman. Christ.
A manyI posted the article above that the video is based on.
What % of women are like this???
It's alot of them. What makes it worse is for a man to continue to love her and be of service.The scary part.......is this type of behavior and thinking in women may be more COMMON than UNCOMMON
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I got that impression from paul e.lam old youtube videos too, also Rich Co oper old youtube videosThe scary part.......is this type of behavior and thinking in women may be more COMMON than UNCOMMON.
I try to maintain a balanced perspective regarding genders.
But from what I have experienced, WOMEN are more likely to:
-get bored
-get resentful in a marriage
-think they are missing out on something
- fail to appreciate what they have
-always want more
-think the grass is greener
-fail to realize how good they have it
-have a senseof entitlement, "I DESERVE more"
-are more selfish
-pull the trigger on divorce, in pursuit of their selfish desire for more, regardless of who it hurst or tha damge they do to other human beings. Then regret it later.
In America, probably at least 1/4 - 1/3 of them.I posted the article above that the video is based on.
What % of women are like this???
Gawdfvckingdamn... That's terrible.In America, probably at least 1/4 - 1/3 of them.
I'm just guessing, it could be lower, or higher, but American women are the most narcisstic and BDP on the planet.Gawdfvckingdamn... That's terrible.
They are entitled and encouraged to control men. Many of the built in systems see things this way. ( Police, Judges, etc ). Men do pretty well in situations where they take care of themselves using a lawyer.I'm just guessing, it could be lower, or higher, but American women are the most narcisstic and BDP on the planet.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
good list,But from what I have experienced, WOMEN are more likely to:
-get bored
-get resentful in a marriage
-think they are missing out on something
- fail to appreciate what they have
-always want more
-think the grass is greener
-fail to realize how good they have it
-have a senseof entitlement, "I DESERVE more"
-are more selfish
-pull the trigger on divorce, in pursuit of their selfish desire for more, regardless of who it hurst or tha damge they do to other human beings. Then regret it later.
Your bullet points are bang on. This is the results of letting your emotions make your decisions.The scary part.......is this type of behavior and thinking in women may be more COMMON than UNCOMMON.
I try to maintain a balanced perspective regarding genders.
But from what I have experienced, WOMEN are more likely to:
-get bored
-get resentful in a marriage
-think they are missing out on something
- fail to appreciate what they have
-always want more
-think the grass is greener
-fail to realize how good they have it
-have a senseof entitlement, "I DESERVE more"
-are more selfish
-pull the trigger on divorce, in pursuit of their selfish desire for more, regardless of who it hurst or tha damge they do to other human beings. Then regret it later.