“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Will the reputation of being a player hurt ur chances of getting a girl????

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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cola

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Well it depends on a few factors. The chick and you. For the most part I think there is no better social proof. Unless you have a bad reputation like little man hood or being a cheap wad hell yeah your screwed. But if there saying things like "he's so charming or he made me feel so wonderful" it can only help you. Just my experience..
 

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David DeAngelo would say: "Attraction isn't a choice."

As long as you are doing everything right, it won't matter if they think you're a player, and they view players in a negative way. There may be a little more initial resistance, but it's nothing to worry about.
 

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all your reputation will cause is more resistance. If you can get though that resistance then your golden, otherwise if your game isn't good enough then it could hurt your chances.
 

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I know its not the anwser you want to hear but....

It depends on the girl.

My coworker wanted to hook me up with her sister in law, but I have a rep as a player and her sister in law is looking for a husband. So she refused to even introduce me to her.

My interns know my reputation as a player and want to go out with me and see if its true. (No bill clinton scandal for me, I keep my hands off the interns).

The difference, one is older with children, the others are 20-22 and in college.

Some women like the challenge, some who have been played don't want to be bothered, they want a symp or square to settle down with.

Depends on the woman. Your best bet is to always downplay your player rep. Never admit to it or brag about all the women you date.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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