"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Will the reputation of being a player hurt ur chances of getting a girl????
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
As long as you are doing everything right, it won't matter if they think you're a player, and they view players in a negative way. There may be a little more initial resistance, but it's nothing to worry about.
It depends on the girl.
My coworker wanted to hook me up with her sister in law, but I have a rep as a player and her sister in law is looking for a husband. So she refused to even introduce me to her.
My interns know my reputation as a player and want to go out with me and see if its true. (No bill clinton scandal for me, I keep my hands off the interns).
The difference, one is older with children, the others are 20-22 and in college.
Some women like the challenge, some who have been played don't want to be bothered, they want a symp or square to settle down with.
Depends on the woman. Your best bet is to always downplay your player rep. Never admit to it or brag about all the women you date.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.