MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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I Have Determined I Will Not Have Sex With My Husband for Years
I'm just not comfortable with the risk.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
It's even MORE than that! Many more in the last decade have switched to bringing in a "husband" as support. He's an "owned" man in her paradigm and she doesn't even have to have sex with him or please him in any way. They will continue living the life outside of the household as she did before she was married, her sex life as well.A romantic relationship will not survive without vaginal sex.
I have had sex with women not on birth control many times. I regularly ejaculated inside of them while using condoms. This wasn't an issue. Of course, this couple can have sex using condoms and the ejaculation can be external.
I think there's a bigger problem here than her initial message is indicating. She's probably not all that attracted to her husband anymore.
Yeah he’s sort of a roommate, but at a higher cost.It's even MORE than that! Many more in the last decade have switched to bringing in a "husband" as support. He's an "owned" man in her paradigm and she doesn't even have to have sex with him or please him in any way. They will continue living the life outside of the household as she did before she was married, her sex life as well.
Yeah! That cost is his manhood!Yeah he’s sort of a roommate, but at a higher cost.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Being CUCKED to that!Being single is way better than being married to that.