MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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I Have Determined I Will Not Have Sex With My Husband for Years
I'm just not comfortable with the risk.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
It's even MORE than that! Many more in the last decade have switched to bringing in a "husband" as support. He's an "owned" man in her paradigm and she doesn't even have to have sex with him or please him in any way. They will continue living the life outside of the household as she did before she was married, her sex life as well.A romantic relationship will not survive without vaginal sex.
I have had sex with women not on birth control many times. I regularly ejaculated inside of them while using condoms. This wasn't an issue. Of course, this couple can have sex using condoms and the ejaculation can be external.
I think there's a bigger problem here than her initial message is indicating. She's probably not all that attracted to her husband anymore.
Yeah he’s sort of a roommate, but at a higher cost.It's even MORE than that! Many more in the last decade have switched to bringing in a "husband" as support. He's an "owned" man in her paradigm and she doesn't even have to have sex with him or please him in any way. They will continue living the life outside of the household as she did before she was married, her sex life as well.
Yeah! That cost is his manhood!Yeah he’s sort of a roommate, but at a higher cost.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Being CUCKED to that!Being single is way better than being married to that.