MatureDJ
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I Have Determined I Will Not Have Sex With My Husband for Years
I'm just not comfortable with the risk.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
wifey states: I Have Determined I Will Not Have Sex With My Husband for Years - I’m just not comfortable with the risk.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
BillyPilgrim
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In this woman's future, I see a husband blowing the joint net worth on hookers and blow followed by a divorce. And a nice 3 course meal of humble pie, karma, and just desserts. And topping that dessert is a nice red cherry to symbolize her proclaimed heritage of "purity culture".
Who Dares Win
Master Don Juan
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If they are afraid to dirt the main entrance they can get used to get in from the back door.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
LARP.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
SW15
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A romantic relationship will not survive without vaginal sex.
I have had sex with women not on birth control many times. I regularly ejaculated inside of them while using condoms. This wasn't an issue. Of course, this couple can have sex using condoms and the ejaculation can be external.
I think there's a bigger problem here than her initial message is indicating. She's probably not all that attracted to her husband anymore.
I have had sex with women not on birth control many times. I regularly ejaculated inside of them while using condoms. This wasn't an issue. Of course, this couple can have sex using condoms and the ejaculation can be external.
I think there's a bigger problem here than her initial message is indicating. She's probably not all that attracted to her husband anymore.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
It's even MORE than that! Many more in the last decade have switched to bringing in a "husband" as support. He's an "owned" man in her paradigm and she doesn't even have to have sex with him or please him in any way. They will continue living the life outside of the household as she did before she was married, her sex life as well.
EyeBRollin
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How pathetic.
Mike32ct
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Yeah he’s sort of a roommate, but at a higher cost.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Yeah! That cost is his manhood!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Being CUCKED to that!