MatureDJ
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I Have Determined I Will Not Have Sex With My Husband for Years
I'm just not comfortable with the risk.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
wifey states: I Have Determined I Will Not Have Sex With My Husband for Years - I’m just not comfortable with the risk.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BillyPilgrim
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In this woman's future, I see a husband blowing the joint net worth on hookers and blow followed by a divorce. And a nice 3 course meal of humble pie, karma, and just desserts. And topping that dessert is a nice red cherry to symbolize her proclaimed heritage of "purity culture".
Who Dares Win
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If they are afraid to dirt the main entrance they can get used to get in from the back door.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
LARP.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
SW15
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A romantic relationship will not survive without vaginal sex.
I have had sex with women not on birth control many times. I regularly ejaculated inside of them while using condoms. This wasn't an issue. Of course, this couple can have sex using condoms and the ejaculation can be external.
I think there's a bigger problem here than her initial message is indicating. She's probably not all that attracted to her husband anymore.
I have had sex with women not on birth control many times. I regularly ejaculated inside of them while using condoms. This wasn't an issue. Of course, this couple can have sex using condoms and the ejaculation can be external.
I think there's a bigger problem here than her initial message is indicating. She's probably not all that attracted to her husband anymore.
mrgoodstuff
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It's even MORE than that! Many more in the last decade have switched to bringing in a "husband" as support. He's an "owned" man in her paradigm and she doesn't even have to have sex with him or please him in any way. They will continue living the life outside of the household as she did before she was married, her sex life as well.
EyeBRollin
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How pathetic.
Mike32ct
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Yeah he’s sort of a roommate, but at a higher cost.
mrgoodstuff
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Yeah! That cost is his manhood!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Being CUCKED to that!