"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rainman4707

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Would you leave your wife/gf home alone with a handyman/repair guy? No chance i would. There is something that dose'nt feel right about doing that.
It's as though you're allowing him on your turf, giving him a free pass to shag your wife.

People may say, well if you trust her, you have nothing to worry about. Still dose'nt feel right to me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Man, you've been watching too much porn. ;)
I wanted to write the exact same thing...

When this is how you think you are basically unable to EVER put yourself in such a situation. Because in this scenario you would be living together with a woman you basically don't trust. Thats free torture you put on yourself.

I think even Satan himself would tell you to slow down on the self torture.
 

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I have been in construction for over 20 years and have worked at countless homes where the wife was smoking hot. Yes I would have loved to **** any of them but I am there to do what I'm paid for. There would be a small number of tradies that would do it but mainly it would be the younger ones. Your over thinking it mate since we are there to do a job and earn a income
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Would you leave your wife/gf home alone with a handyman/repair guy? No chance i would. There is something that dose'nt feel right about doing that.
It's as though you're allowing him on your turf, giving him a free pass to shag your wife.

People may say, well if you trust her, you have nothing to worry about. Still dose'nt feel right to me.
She would probably be too drunk to care and would be passed out anyway.
 

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I'm not married and have not lived with a girlfriend.

For men that don't live with their girlfriends, it's not practical to be at a girlfriend's home when she's having a home repair done. This is true whether she is a homeowner or renter. A lot of renters aren't even home at times when maintenance workers come to their apartments and do needed repairs. If a woman rents a single family house, it is more likely she's home when the repair worker arrives.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have been in construction for over 20 years and have worked at countless homes where the wife was smoking hot. Yes I would have loved to **** any of them but I am there to do what I'm paid for. There would be a small number of tradies that would do it but mainly it would be the younger ones. Your over thinking it mate since we are there to do a job and earn a income
I think this reflects reality. I might be less concerned about things since I have never married. A failed girlfriend relationship is different than a failed marriage. Both @Mike32ct and I have acknowledged a lack of practicality in 2 peope being home when a repair worker/tradesman is home. This is more complex for the man who doesn't live with his girlfriend.
 

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Dont worry, the handyman would puke at the smell of her kitty.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Would you leave your wife/gf home alone with a handyman/repair guy? No chance i would. There is something that dose'nt feel right about doing that.
It's as though you're allowing him on your turf, giving him a free pass to shag your wife.

People may say, well if you trust her, you have nothing to worry about. Still dose'nt feel right to me.
If you're seriously dating a woman who would bang a random dude she just met in the middle of the day while totally sober, your life choices are already FUBAR (f*cked up beyond all repair)

If you're not dating a woman who makes a habit of that, then your only worry is if a male model spends his weekdays fixing leaks.

Nope. I make sure I am always home if a contractor comes into my house. I will not allow another man in the house with my wife if I am not there. That is neglecting her safety.
The only way I'd agree with this is if it's a random barely vetted guy from Fiver or Craigslist.

She would probably be too drunk to care and would be passed out anyway.
She sounds like fun lol.
 

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If you're seriously dating a woman who would bang a random dude she just met in the middle of the day while totally sober, your life choices are already FUBAR (f*cked up beyond all repair)

If you're not dating a woman who makes a habit of that, then your only worry is if a male model spends his weekdays fixing leaks.



The only way I'd agree with this is if it's a random barely vetted guy from Fiver or Craigslist.



She sounds like fun lol.
Read OPs posts about her...he knows how to pick em.
 

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Read OPs posts about her...he knows how to pick em.
Holy crap I found the thread you were talking about. I thought you were making a joke in the first post lol.

All I can say about OP's situation is RIP Jerry Springer. He was the only one that could've handled this
 

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Holy crap I found the thread you were talking about. I thought you were making a joke in the first post lol.

All I can say about OP's situation is RIP Jerry Springer. He was the only one that could've handled this
Nope...OP trying to play this off like it's normal and she is a "catch" is mind boggling to me. I expect we will hear about how he was mentally and emotionally torn to shreds by her within the next 12 months.
 

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If you're seriously dating a woman who would bang a random dude she just met in the middle of the day while totally sober, your life choices are already FUBAR (f*cked up beyond all repair)

If you're not dating a woman who makes a habit of that, then your only worry is if a male model spends his weekdays fixing leaks.



The only way I'd agree with this is if it's a random barely vetted guy from Fiver or Craigslist.



She sounds like fun lol.
Hmm...i just dont like the idea of allowing another man in my house with wife/gf. Just dosent seem right to me.

Lots of good looking blue collar men about.

Was just reading a guy said he was working in a big posh house. Woman came on to him and he grew up in his trade hearing lots of times when his superiors banged married women, then their unsuspecting husbands came back and made the workman something to eat tea cringe
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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