That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Change requires endless combat against yourself.
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Not endless, unless you you're constantly trying to change. I had a few rough years where I put in massive effort to change, now it's paying off. There comes a point where it's good enough, if not you're perpetually stressed and it never quite pays off.Change requires endless combat against yourself.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Right! But this doesn't mean that there's nothing good to learn in some of his videos. I would give it a try.Is that Paul Joseph Watson? I geniunely can't stand this dude. He comes off to me as a low testosterone "beta". He makes me cringe, he loves talking about problems in America and he doesn't live here
Aristotle didn't lived in America. Should we give attention to what he said? Should we give attention to what he would say of America if he was alive today? I'm not comparing Joseph Watson to Aristotle. What I'm saying is that a good lesson IS a good lesson. A good idea IS a good idea. A good advice IS a good advice. No matter who it come from, but the reason, the roots, the pillars and the WISDOM that it reveals and that sustain it strongly in the World. Wisdom is to drink the best juices from of all the good sources possible. And, if you are here and you're not a "beta" (no matter how ridiculous these classifications are, besides the zoological and biological aspects), by the way, what the hell an alpha male is doing here in SOSUAVE posting and reading things?Is that Paul Joseph Watson? I geniunely can't stand this dude. He comes off to me as a low testosterone "beta". He makes me cringe, he loves talking about problems in America and he doesn't live here
Don't care for the classifications that's why I put it in quotes because it's cheesy as hell. It's ego attaching to another identity. Watson seems like a plant to me, I'm willing to listen although I have not yet. I feel like it will be underwhelmingAristotle didn't lived in America. Should we give attention to what he said? Should we give attention to what he would say of America if he was alive today? I'm not comparing Joseph Watson to Aristotle. What I'm saying is that a good lesson IS a good lesson. A good idea IS a good idea. A good advice IS a good advice. No matter who it come from, but the reason, the roots, the pillars and the WISDOM that it reveals and that sustain it strongly in the World. Wisdom is to drink the best juices from of all the good sources possible. And, if you are here and you're not a "beta" (no matter how ridiculous these classifications are, besides the zoological and biological aspects), by the way, what the hell an alpha male is doing here in SOSUAVE posting and reading things?
Right. But, to me, this guy have some good lessons to tell, specially for the newcomer beginner nice guys.Don't care for the classifications that's why I put it in quotes because it's cheesy as hell. It's ego attaching to another identity. Watson seems like a plant to me, I'm willing to listen although I have not yet. I feel like it will be underwhelming
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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