I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Change requires endless combat against yourself.
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Not endless, unless you you're constantly trying to change. I had a few rough years where I put in massive effort to change, now it's paying off. There comes a point where it's good enough, if not you're perpetually stressed and it never quite pays off.Change requires endless combat against yourself.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Right! But this doesn't mean that there's nothing good to learn in some of his videos. I would give it a try.Is that Paul Joseph Watson? I geniunely can't stand this dude. He comes off to me as a low testosterone "beta". He makes me cringe, he loves talking about problems in America and he doesn't live here
Aristotle didn't lived in America. Should we give attention to what he said? Should we give attention to what he would say of America if he was alive today? I'm not comparing Joseph Watson to Aristotle. What I'm saying is that a good lesson IS a good lesson. A good idea IS a good idea. A good advice IS a good advice. No matter who it come from, but the reason, the roots, the pillars and the WISDOM that it reveals and that sustain it strongly in the World. Wisdom is to drink the best juices from of all the good sources possible. And, if you are here and you're not a "beta" (no matter how ridiculous these classifications are, besides the zoological and biological aspects), by the way, what the hell an alpha male is doing here in SOSUAVE posting and reading things?Is that Paul Joseph Watson? I geniunely can't stand this dude. He comes off to me as a low testosterone "beta". He makes me cringe, he loves talking about problems in America and he doesn't live here
Don't care for the classifications that's why I put it in quotes because it's cheesy as hell. It's ego attaching to another identity. Watson seems like a plant to me, I'm willing to listen although I have not yet. I feel like it will be underwhelmingAristotle didn't lived in America. Should we give attention to what he said? Should we give attention to what he would say of America if he was alive today? I'm not comparing Joseph Watson to Aristotle. What I'm saying is that a good lesson IS a good lesson. A good idea IS a good idea. A good advice IS a good advice. No matter who it come from, but the reason, the roots, the pillars and the WISDOM that it reveals and that sustain it strongly in the World. Wisdom is to drink the best juices from of all the good sources possible. And, if you are here and you're not a "beta" (no matter how ridiculous these classifications are, besides the zoological and biological aspects), by the way, what the hell an alpha male is doing here in SOSUAVE posting and reading things?
Right. But, to me, this guy have some good lessons to tell, specially for the newcomer beginner nice guys.Don't care for the classifications that's why I put it in quotes because it's cheesy as hell. It's ego attaching to another identity. Watson seems like a plant to me, I'm willing to listen although I have not yet. I feel like it will be underwhelming
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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