So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Just wondering, why do all you guys seem to hate women so much?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
So pimp its scary said:Just wondering, why do all you guys seem to hate women so much?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
sca_p said:I don't hate women at all. I'm a newbie poster but a long time lurker, and I'm shocked at the hatred towards women...the calling them b*tches, wh*res, sl*ts, and broads, the referring to them as mere objects to be used...the griping about how there are no virgin brides these days, yet at the same time complaining that a woman won't "give it up" after date number ______. I've read threads where men talk about being with women they don't really like, who ask for advice on how they can still f*ck her lots and lots without her getting too attached, and all I can think about is how that poor woman is getting played for something cheap.
I've seen too many posters argue about a power struggle between men and women, too many posters put others down in attempt to look "alpha" on an internet forum, too many posters complain on end about things they hate about women.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
And since there are not enough good, high-quality ones to go around, some guys wil have to settle for the no-good ones. When the no-good ones burn these guys, the guys complain and moan about women in general -- cos the only (or the majority) of women they have had have been the no-good type.we don't hate women in general, atleast i don't. Yes, but I do hate the wrong, low-quality, trashy hor bags!
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I don't know where the 20/80 rule comes from, I always thought it was the 5/95 rule, from what I've seen, maybe it is different in Melbourne, I have not been there for nearly fifteen years.yhgsvh74d said:There's some authority for the 20/80 rule... in our 20s, 20% of men are fvcking 80% of women. This has a lot of different results now and later. Just become part of that 20%.
Not necessarily.comic_relief said:Fifthly, people in general hate what they can't have. Look at the DJ's that actually get women all the time and they are usually a lot more respectable.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.