So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Just wondering, why do all you guys seem to hate women so much?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
So pimp its scary said:Just wondering, why do all you guys seem to hate women so much?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
sca_p said:I don't hate women at all. I'm a newbie poster but a long time lurker, and I'm shocked at the hatred towards women...the calling them b*tches, wh*res, sl*ts, and broads, the referring to them as mere objects to be used...the griping about how there are no virgin brides these days, yet at the same time complaining that a woman won't "give it up" after date number ______. I've read threads where men talk about being with women they don't really like, who ask for advice on how they can still f*ck her lots and lots without her getting too attached, and all I can think about is how that poor woman is getting played for something cheap.
I've seen too many posters argue about a power struggle between men and women, too many posters put others down in attempt to look "alpha" on an internet forum, too many posters complain on end about things they hate about women.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
And since there are not enough good, high-quality ones to go around, some guys wil have to settle for the no-good ones. When the no-good ones burn these guys, the guys complain and moan about women in general -- cos the only (or the majority) of women they have had have been the no-good type.we don't hate women in general, atleast i don't. Yes, but I do hate the wrong, low-quality, trashy hor bags!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I don't know where the 20/80 rule comes from, I always thought it was the 5/95 rule, from what I've seen, maybe it is different in Melbourne, I have not been there for nearly fifteen years.yhgsvh74d said:There's some authority for the 20/80 rule... in our 20s, 20% of men are fvcking 80% of women. This has a lot of different results now and later. Just become part of that 20%.
Not necessarily.comic_relief said:Fifthly, people in general hate what they can't have. Look at the DJ's that actually get women all the time and they are usually a lot more respectable.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.