So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Just wondering, why do all you guys seem to hate women so much?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So pimp its scary said:Just wondering, why do all you guys seem to hate women so much?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
sca_p said:I don't hate women at all. I'm a newbie poster but a long time lurker, and I'm shocked at the hatred towards women...the calling them b*tches, wh*res, sl*ts, and broads, the referring to them as mere objects to be used...the griping about how there are no virgin brides these days, yet at the same time complaining that a woman won't "give it up" after date number ______. I've read threads where men talk about being with women they don't really like, who ask for advice on how they can still f*ck her lots and lots without her getting too attached, and all I can think about is how that poor woman is getting played for something cheap.
I've seen too many posters argue about a power struggle between men and women, too many posters put others down in attempt to look "alpha" on an internet forum, too many posters complain on end about things they hate about women.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
And since there are not enough good, high-quality ones to go around, some guys wil have to settle for the no-good ones. When the no-good ones burn these guys, the guys complain and moan about women in general -- cos the only (or the majority) of women they have had have been the no-good type.we don't hate women in general, atleast i don't. Yes, but I do hate the wrong, low-quality, trashy hor bags!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't know where the 20/80 rule comes from, I always thought it was the 5/95 rule, from what I've seen, maybe it is different in Melbourne, I have not been there for nearly fifteen years.yhgsvh74d said:There's some authority for the 20/80 rule... in our 20s, 20% of men are fvcking 80% of women. This has a lot of different results now and later. Just become part of that 20%.
Not necessarily.comic_relief said:Fifthly, people in general hate what they can't have. Look at the DJ's that actually get women all the time and they are usually a lot more respectable.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.