So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Just wondering, why do all you guys seem to hate women so much?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
So pimp its scary said:Just wondering, why do all you guys seem to hate women so much?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
sca_p said:I don't hate women at all. I'm a newbie poster but a long time lurker, and I'm shocked at the hatred towards women...the calling them b*tches, wh*res, sl*ts, and broads, the referring to them as mere objects to be used...the griping about how there are no virgin brides these days, yet at the same time complaining that a woman won't "give it up" after date number ______. I've read threads where men talk about being with women they don't really like, who ask for advice on how they can still f*ck her lots and lots without her getting too attached, and all I can think about is how that poor woman is getting played for something cheap.
I've seen too many posters argue about a power struggle between men and women, too many posters put others down in attempt to look "alpha" on an internet forum, too many posters complain on end about things they hate about women.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
And since there are not enough good, high-quality ones to go around, some guys wil have to settle for the no-good ones. When the no-good ones burn these guys, the guys complain and moan about women in general -- cos the only (or the majority) of women they have had have been the no-good type.we don't hate women in general, atleast i don't. Yes, but I do hate the wrong, low-quality, trashy hor bags!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't know where the 20/80 rule comes from, I always thought it was the 5/95 rule, from what I've seen, maybe it is different in Melbourne, I have not been there for nearly fifteen years.yhgsvh74d said:There's some authority for the 20/80 rule... in our 20s, 20% of men are fvcking 80% of women. This has a lot of different results now and later. Just become part of that 20%.
Not necessarily.comic_relief said:Fifthly, people in general hate what they can't have. Look at the DJ's that actually get women all the time and they are usually a lot more respectable.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.