So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
Just wondering, why do all you guys seem to hate women so much?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
So pimp its scary said:Just wondering, why do all you guys seem to hate women so much?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
sca_p said:I don't hate women at all. I'm a newbie poster but a long time lurker, and I'm shocked at the hatred towards women...the calling them b*tches, wh*res, sl*ts, and broads, the referring to them as mere objects to be used...the griping about how there are no virgin brides these days, yet at the same time complaining that a woman won't "give it up" after date number ______. I've read threads where men talk about being with women they don't really like, who ask for advice on how they can still f*ck her lots and lots without her getting too attached, and all I can think about is how that poor woman is getting played for something cheap.
I've seen too many posters argue about a power struggle between men and women, too many posters put others down in attempt to look "alpha" on an internet forum, too many posters complain on end about things they hate about women.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
And since there are not enough good, high-quality ones to go around, some guys wil have to settle for the no-good ones. When the no-good ones burn these guys, the guys complain and moan about women in general -- cos the only (or the majority) of women they have had have been the no-good type.we don't hate women in general, atleast i don't. Yes, but I do hate the wrong, low-quality, trashy hor bags!
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I don't know where the 20/80 rule comes from, I always thought it was the 5/95 rule, from what I've seen, maybe it is different in Melbourne, I have not been there for nearly fifteen years.yhgsvh74d said:There's some authority for the 20/80 rule... in our 20s, 20% of men are fvcking 80% of women. This has a lot of different results now and later. Just become part of that 20%.
Not necessarily.comic_relief said:Fifthly, people in general hate what they can't have. Look at the DJ's that actually get women all the time and they are usually a lot more respectable.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.