why should I give you a chance? shyt test

[joker79]

guys I need a good comeback for this attention ***** that wants to be pedestalised. Never asked for a chance. Any good ideas?

 

[Uncharted]

Is this through text? No response necessary.

 

[joker79]

yes, it is. but I'm tempted to smash the pedestal she wants to be on with some ****y/douchebag comeback

 

[asa_don]

this isn't a sh!t test bro, she ain't interested, girls don't say stuff like this to high value men, she already has value over you, any come backs you repeat wont make a difference to her, you will appear more weak, talk to another girl instead.

 

[asa_don]

"because eventually youre gonna realize im the one who gave you a chance"

see, this is the weak qualifying response that you want to avoid.

you will end up working too hard for her pvssy that you will never get to touch.

do you think she is saying sh!t like to guys who have high value? hell no, she is working to qualify herself to them.

don't work from behind, always be on top

"because eventually youre gonna realize im the one who gave you a chance"

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its always obvious who acutally interacts with women and who just reads what they wish they could do.

sorry to break it to you asa_don but the majority of guys are not "high value males" which makes your logic flawed and advice completely pointless.

for the every man, everything should be treated as a sh*t test. especially when youre in doubt.

youre basically advising him to maintain a self defeating mentality. might as well tell guys "dont approach girls, they only respond to celebreity approaches"

some girls are cvntier to deal with. doesnt mean you cant get through to them.

please, go out and interact with women before you start giving advice here. the lack of experience and afc mindsets of some of the regulars here is glaringly obvious

:crackup:

a very defensive post, no self defeating at all, when a chick doesn't like you what are you going to do? beg? thats the beta mindset you're coming from.

sounds to me like this is a regular occurance for you.

it's obvious to me that you don't know what you're talking about.

a guy who's a 4 trying to date a 6 has lower value, a guy who's a 7 has higher value over the 6, learn something bro.


thats why this girl isnt going out with "the majority" of guys, 8's, 9's go out with a select few, learn something about women bro.

any dude who looks better than her has higher value.

you give bad advice, your come back is lame sh!t like this, i've seen it before.

i never had a girl say something like this to me bro that had interest, girls say this to guys they aren't interested in, keep truckin bro

 

[Tictac]

How about a simple LOL.

 

[guru1000]

"LMAO, I admire your courage."

 

[Albatross953]

I would probably ignore, but if I did reply I would say "you shouldn't"

 

[Trump]

guys I need a good comeback for this attention ***** that wants to be pedestalised. Never asked for a chance. Any good ideas?

You did something to make her ask that and it seems like you haven't established enough rapport with her.

But anyway I would respond with things you actually have. You don't want to qualify yourself to her but you don't want her to think you are defensive.

I would actually respond with: "I have a house, a car, education, a job, I don't drink, smoke, do drugs, criminal record and never been in jail. Probably better than half the men out there right now. I think if I'm willing to give you chance you should meet me halfway."

Let her come back and say: "I'm too good for you. I'm too sexy. My standards are high. I need a rich man." Then you know what she is about.

 

[Game00617]

I wouldn't talk to a woman with an attitude like that. I would say "really that's gay." Cut all contact and ignore her for a couple of months.

Move onto the next. Keep a strong frame. That girl for some reason got the impression you were supplicating for a date. Keep it casual. Maintain plausible deniability. You could respond by adding "I was only talking about hanging out!"

The only way you should be expressing "interest" in a girl, is by offering a casual hangout, Kino, flirting, and escalating (which is just having fun -Not a big deal-) You're naturally a flirtatious guy, it means NOTHING.

There should be no connotations of "me and you", having a chance together, having a relationship, or anything of the like. You just met.

 

[Game00617]

I would actually respond with: "I have a house, a car, education, a job, I don't drink, smoke, do drugs, criminal record and never been in jail. Probably better than half the men out there right now. I think if I'm willing to give you chance you should meet me halfway.".

Couldn't disagree more. That would be qualifying yourself to the girl.

All of these things are implying:
1) I have plenty of money to spend on you
2) I will make a great husband and provider


You don't know the woman and have never been on a date with her.

If you offer a woman your salary, car, and house as an incentive for a date...Don't be surprised when 4-5 years down the road your sitting in divorce court and she leaves with all of the above.

 

[Special EDy]

Maybe the DJ thing would be to pander to her this time since there isnt really any other way to brush it off. She may not be testing you, she may just have a self esteem issue and want your encouragement or legitimately be worried about being used.

Make the concession this one time, so long as you dont make a habit of it and flip the power position the first chance you get its a win. Whatever it takes to get in her pants. You cant be alpha 100% of the time, 99% of the time will get you a lot farther in life.

All the more power to you for knowing that you behaved this way and using it to take one tiny step back to make great leaps forward. There is a difference between being and acting.

 

[wishyo]

"you tell me" "you tell me why i even have to bother telling it to you" something like this
i would just avoid a relationship which starts like this. It is pretty fascinating how similar my dating philosophy to anti dump's stuff, I dont have to prove sh1t to a chick, if she wants to be around, I will consider that, if not, too bad for her. you dont have to prove her sh1t, she doesnt worth it regardless of her looks and there thousands of substitutes for her.

 

[Thorninmyside]

"Oh, you're giving ME a chance? I love a girl with a sense of humour! So about this Friday night...".

 

[Tomo]

"YOU give ME a chance? Lol, don't flatter yourself"

This. It is short enough but ****y and funny enough. It inclines her to reply to validate herself of which you can then carry on the conversation or invite her out. Just have to have laid the foundations of flirtations etc before you got to this point.