"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why no Politics? Is this 1984?

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Wow, I thought we lived in a free society. Why can't we speak our minds on this subject? Was sosuave.com getting bomb threats? Did someone DIE as a result of a political debate here?

Just curious!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Have you now, or have you ever been a member of the Communist party???!?!?!?!?!
 

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err....no actually it's 2003! :D
(I am an Orwell fan, before anyone calls me a philistine.)

The general thing is that the same old crap was repeated ad infinitem, with neither 'side' giving a nanometre to the other side, and basically failing to see that both sides had their flaws as well.

What started out as intelligent and intriguing discussion rapidly degenerated into insults and fuzzy logic (mentioning no names), better that the ghost of political discussion be laid to rest.

Now - back to the 80th post about DJ soundtracks....
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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lol..i think ultrashogun just proved the point! Zu witzig!
 

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well it's been proven, so :) bash me all you want, I'm god, I'm allen, I know everything about history, sooner or later, ninja dude will become the next ninja president and slash and hack all of us into pieces!
 

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I agree that the political discussions invariably devolved into childishness and ad hominem attacks.

On the other hand, they were a lot of fun.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think ultra shogun answered that with his tongue firmly in his cheek, well I hope so anyway.

Demon - no offence, brother - but you were definitely in that 80% :rolleyes:
 

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oh yeah. Dont try and cop out on that one homeboy. You were just as bad for not listening to reason as I was.
 

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Capitalist monkey? No my friend...you forgot another subtle adjective. Its RICH capitalist monkey you poor communist working ant :D

Hee hee, just kidding shogun. Dont pull your samourai sword out on me
 

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Capitalist monkey? No my friend...you forgot another subtle adjective. Its RICH capitalist monkey you poor communist working ant
Hey no offense taken.

I hope you all noticed that that "capitalist monkey" stuff wasnt serious.

Anyway, germany isnt communist, I dont get why everyone seems to think that.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ronny_Neumonic II

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Originally posted by Demon
They were always childish because 80% of you had no idea what you were talking about.
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true most people had no clue and there were some (not gonna name but YOU know who they are) who would just make up shít and stuff and waffle on about nothing..
 

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Originally posted by Lionheart
Demon - no offence, brother - but you were definitely in that 80% :rolleyes:
No, sorry. I was in the upper 5% that knew what they were talking about. You were definitely in the 80% though.
 

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If you want to know why political discussions are banned, just read this entire thread from post to post.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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