Ninja Dude
Senior Don Juan
Wow, I thought we lived in a free society. Why can't we speak our minds on this subject? Was sosuave.com getting bomb threats? Did someone DIE as a result of a political debate here?
Just curious!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why no Politics? Is this 1984?
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Wow, I thought we lived in a free society. Why can't we speak our minds on this subject? Was sosuave.com getting bomb threats? Did someone DIE as a result of a political debate here?
Just curious!
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Kwah
Master Don Juan
Have you now, or have you ever been a member of the Communist party???!?!?!?!?!
Lionheart
Master Don Juan
err....no actually it's 2003!
(I am an Orwell fan, before anyone calls me a philistine.)
The general thing is that the same old crap was repeated ad infinitem, with neither 'side' giving a nanometre to the other side, and basically failing to see that both sides had their flaws as well.
What started out as intelligent and intriguing discussion rapidly degenerated into insults and fuzzy logic (mentioning no names), better that the ghost of political discussion be laid to rest.
Now - back to the 80th post about DJ soundtracks....
(I am an Orwell fan, before anyone calls me a philistine.)
The general thing is that the same old crap was repeated ad infinitem, with neither 'side' giving a nanometre to the other side, and basically failing to see that both sides had their flaws as well.
What started out as intelligent and intriguing discussion rapidly degenerated into insults and fuzzy logic (mentioning no names), better that the ghost of political discussion be laid to rest.
Now - back to the 80th post about DJ soundtracks....
ultrashogun
Senior Don Juan
SHUT THE **** UP YOU CAPITALIST MONKEY!!!!!!!
Ninja Dude
Senior Don Juan
You three have just answered my question so perfectly. I was against this policy before but now I can see it was the right move!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tryin to Grow a Chin
Master Don Juan
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I agree that the political discussions invariably devolved into childishness and ad hominem attacks.
On the other hand, they were a lot of fun.
On the other hand, they were a lot of fun.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Lionheart
Master Don Juan
I think ultra shogun answered that with his tongue firmly in his cheek, well I hope so anyway.
Demon - no offence, brother - but you were definitely in that 80%
Demon - no offence, brother - but you were definitely in that 80%
Kwah
Master Don Juan
oh yeah. Dont try and cop out on that one homeboy. You were just as bad for not listening to reason as I was.
thejuice
Master Don Juan
Capitalist monkey? No my friend...you forgot another subtle adjective. Its RICH capitalist monkey you poor communist working ant
Hee hee, just kidding shogun. Dont pull your samourai sword out on me
Hee hee, just kidding shogun. Dont pull your samourai sword out on me
ultrashogun
Senior Don Juan
Hey no offense taken.
I hope you all noticed that that "capitalist monkey" stuff wasnt serious.
Anyway, germany isnt communist, I dont get why everyone seems to think that.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ronny_Neumonic II
Master Don Juan
^^
true most people had no clue and there were some (not gonna name but YOU know who they are) who would just make up shít and stuff and waffle on about nothing..
diplomatic_lies
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If you want to know why political discussions are banned, just read this entire thread from post to post.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.