Ninja Dude
Senior Don Juan
Wow, I thought we lived in a free society. Why can't we speak our minds on this subject? Was sosuave.com getting bomb threats? Did someone DIE as a result of a political debate here?
Just curious!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why no Politics? Is this 1984?
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Wow, I thought we lived in a free society. Why can't we speak our minds on this subject? Was sosuave.com getting bomb threats? Did someone DIE as a result of a political debate here?
Just curious!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Kwah
Master Don Juan
Have you now, or have you ever been a member of the Communist party???!?!?!?!?!
Lionheart
Master Don Juan
err....no actually it's 2003!
(I am an Orwell fan, before anyone calls me a philistine.)
The general thing is that the same old crap was repeated ad infinitem, with neither 'side' giving a nanometre to the other side, and basically failing to see that both sides had their flaws as well.
What started out as intelligent and intriguing discussion rapidly degenerated into insults and fuzzy logic (mentioning no names), better that the ghost of political discussion be laid to rest.
Now - back to the 80th post about DJ soundtracks....
(I am an Orwell fan, before anyone calls me a philistine.)
The general thing is that the same old crap was repeated ad infinitem, with neither 'side' giving a nanometre to the other side, and basically failing to see that both sides had their flaws as well.
What started out as intelligent and intriguing discussion rapidly degenerated into insults and fuzzy logic (mentioning no names), better that the ghost of political discussion be laid to rest.
Now - back to the 80th post about DJ soundtracks....
ultrashogun
Senior Don Juan
SHUT THE **** UP YOU CAPITALIST MONKEY!!!!!!!
Ninja Dude
Senior Don Juan
You three have just answered my question so perfectly. I was against this policy before but now I can see it was the right move!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Tryin to Grow a Chin
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I agree that the political discussions invariably devolved into childishness and ad hominem attacks.
On the other hand, they were a lot of fun.
On the other hand, they were a lot of fun.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Lionheart
Master Don Juan
I think ultra shogun answered that with his tongue firmly in his cheek, well I hope so anyway.
Demon - no offence, brother - but you were definitely in that 80%
Demon - no offence, brother - but you were definitely in that 80%
Kwah
Master Don Juan
oh yeah. Dont try and cop out on that one homeboy. You were just as bad for not listening to reason as I was.
thejuice
Master Don Juan
Capitalist monkey? No my friend...you forgot another subtle adjective. Its RICH capitalist monkey you poor communist working ant
Hee hee, just kidding shogun. Dont pull your samourai sword out on me
Hee hee, just kidding shogun. Dont pull your samourai sword out on me
ultrashogun
Senior Don Juan
Hey no offense taken.
I hope you all noticed that that "capitalist monkey" stuff wasnt serious.
Anyway, germany isnt communist, I dont get why everyone seems to think that.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Ronny_Neumonic II
Master Don Juan
^^
true most people had no clue and there were some (not gonna name but YOU know who they are) who would just make up shít and stuff and waffle on about nothing..
diplomatic_lies
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If you want to know why political discussions are banned, just read this entire thread from post to post.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.