Ninja Dude
Senior Don Juan
Wow, I thought we lived in a free society. Why can't we speak our minds on this subject? Was sosuave.com getting bomb threats? Did someone DIE as a result of a political debate here?
Just curious!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why no Politics? Is this 1984?
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Wow, I thought we lived in a free society. Why can't we speak our minds on this subject? Was sosuave.com getting bomb threats? Did someone DIE as a result of a political debate here?
Just curious!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Kwah
Master Don Juan
Have you now, or have you ever been a member of the Communist party???!?!?!?!?!
Lionheart
Master Don Juan
err....no actually it's 2003!
(I am an Orwell fan, before anyone calls me a philistine.)
The general thing is that the same old crap was repeated ad infinitem, with neither 'side' giving a nanometre to the other side, and basically failing to see that both sides had their flaws as well.
What started out as intelligent and intriguing discussion rapidly degenerated into insults and fuzzy logic (mentioning no names), better that the ghost of political discussion be laid to rest.
Now - back to the 80th post about DJ soundtracks....
(I am an Orwell fan, before anyone calls me a philistine.)
The general thing is that the same old crap was repeated ad infinitem, with neither 'side' giving a nanometre to the other side, and basically failing to see that both sides had their flaws as well.
What started out as intelligent and intriguing discussion rapidly degenerated into insults and fuzzy logic (mentioning no names), better that the ghost of political discussion be laid to rest.
Now - back to the 80th post about DJ soundtracks....
ultrashogun
Senior Don Juan
SHUT THE **** UP YOU CAPITALIST MONKEY!!!!!!!
Ninja Dude
Senior Don Juan
You three have just answered my question so perfectly. I was against this policy before but now I can see it was the right move!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Tryin to Grow a Chin
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I agree that the political discussions invariably devolved into childishness and ad hominem attacks.
On the other hand, they were a lot of fun.
On the other hand, they were a lot of fun.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Lionheart
Master Don Juan
I think ultra shogun answered that with his tongue firmly in his cheek, well I hope so anyway.
Demon - no offence, brother - but you were definitely in that 80%
Demon - no offence, brother - but you were definitely in that 80%
Kwah
Master Don Juan
oh yeah. Dont try and cop out on that one homeboy. You were just as bad for not listening to reason as I was.
thejuice
Master Don Juan
Capitalist monkey? No my friend...you forgot another subtle adjective. Its RICH capitalist monkey you poor communist working ant
Hee hee, just kidding shogun. Dont pull your samourai sword out on me
Hee hee, just kidding shogun. Dont pull your samourai sword out on me
ultrashogun
Senior Don Juan
Hey no offense taken.
I hope you all noticed that that "capitalist monkey" stuff wasnt serious.
Anyway, germany isnt communist, I dont get why everyone seems to think that.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Ronny_Neumonic II
Master Don Juan
^^
true most people had no clue and there were some (not gonna name but YOU know who they are) who would just make up shít and stuff and waffle on about nothing..
diplomatic_lies
Master Don Juan
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If you want to know why political discussions are banned, just read this entire thread from post to post.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.