“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Why Mystery has so much success

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too bad you guys still dont understand that Mystery acting the way he did IS HIS OWN NATURAL GAME
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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That's the problem. It's his own. Just cuz it works for him naturally, doesn't mean it'll work for someone else naturally. :p
 

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his message is to develop a likeable fun personality and then project it in your pickups!!

in other words, dont be a depressed AFC whos hitting on girls without even having any fun with it!!!
 

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LostAndConfused said:
if playing (and trying to succeed) in all those games that the girl in that video made Mystery go through is your idea of fun......do I need to finish?

you dont think Mystery was having fun there?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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AFC Savior said:
you dont think Mystery was having fun there?
Only because he's good at pickup and knew he'd get her. So fun and outcome dependance are always linked. It's never been any different.

MM
 

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DonJoseCantosie said:
That's the problem. It's his own. Just cuz it works for him naturally, doesn't mean it'll work for someone else naturally. :p
Try to look past how he does what he does and look at what he is doing and try to understand why he's doing it.
 
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lol @ this thread...

Why does everything have to be considered stage and why does everyone have something negative to say. I didn't see anything wrong with that whole set. He actually plowed it well.

The chick isn't giggling and jumping all over the place because he doesn't really use buying temperature based game. This guy sucks chicks into his reality because he is intriguing.

This set was well done, and you can tell he is very calibrated.

While I don't like MM because of a few flaws, I still respect Mystery. Behind all the marketing hype, his fame, whatever, the man has game period.

There is alot of subtle stuff going on. It's around 50secs that she basically starts settling in the set.

Overall I like this one...
 

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Ahhh! Mystery Method, believe it or not, isn't about routines. It's just based on the idea that women respond to social value as much, if not more, than they do looks. When Mystery Method is done right, you're the coolest guy in the entire bar, even if you'll have lots of haters who say you sound like a nasal chick or w/e. Mystery is a friggin genius, though, and what he says about social value is really spot on.

Neil Strauss is just the perfect example. He has a nasal voice, he's actually more effeminate, yet the guy gets some pretty hot chicks (yes, I know Leveridge divorced him, but he also banged her, so stfu player-haters). It's not cause of his looks, but the fact that he knows how to present himself as a socially valuable individual. Women want to marry up on the social scale, NOT down on the social scale.

Are women sexually attracted to men who are higher in social value? Debatable. Some women marry rich wall-street dudes and bang their pool-boys. Do women want to be around guys who are interesting? Duh.

I think people just hate Mystery Method because they don't really understand what point he's trying to get across.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It went down very textbook style: negs, takeaway, disqualifiers, kino, **** tests... Mystery played it very well. Classic Mystery Method.
 

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Good approach, but not good example for the new guys like me, cuz the stuck up bytch was obviously not choosin, enough said.

p.s. why are you guys arguing whether its fake or not? Open ur eyes: look at the guy closer to the camera: another guy tries to move him with his hand like 3-4 times as if to say "stop blocking the camera" wow.
 

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It's not rocket science.

Make yourself as hot as possible. Wear a suit that makes you stand out. Work out 5x a week. Get a haircut and maybe some facial hair that makes you look more masculine. Get a tan, too.

After that go into a club and just start talking to a chick, don't compliment her and ask her about her life and voila, you can take her home.
 

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Lol Chris, notice how mystery has none of these: probably does not work out, isnt tan, doesnt look masculine, dressed like a parrot... this n!gga look like he just escaped from the zoo... but hey hes doing his thing so good for him
 

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DJVladdy said:
Lol Chris, notice how mystery has none of these: probably does not work out, isnt tan, doesnt look masculine, dressed like a parrot... this n!gga look like he just escaped from the zoo... but hey hes doing his thing so good for him
I highly doubt Mystery pulls a lot of smoking hot women. He pulls the cute and average chicks. Don't believe the hype.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ChrizZ said:
I highly doubt Mystery pulls a lot of smoking hot women. He pulls the cute and average chicks. Don't believe the hype.

dont set your standards so high that u'll end up single and lonely forever
 

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This is the same dude in the Game who was crying like a baby because he couldn't handle having a girlfriend right?

He is smooth at pick-up though, no doubt about that.
 

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ChrizZ said:
It's not rocket science.

Make yourself as hot as possible. Wear a suit that makes you stand out. Work out 5x a week. Get a haircut and maybe some facial hair that makes you look more masculine. Get a tan, too...
What did Mystery do out of all of that other than wearing a koala on his head in order to stand out?
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
What did Mystery do out of all of that other than wearing a koala on his head in order to stand out?
He used the Social Sciences of Psychology/Sociology, and applied it to picking up women. And surprisingly..it works.
 

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Evolution said:
He used the Social Sciences of Psychology/Sociology, and applied it to picking up women. And surprisingly..it works.
That was apparent but ChrizZ said that all you need to do is "Make yourself as hot as possible. Wear a suit that makes you stand out. Work out 5x a week. Get a haircut and maybe some facial hair that makes you look more masculine. Get a tan, too..." And Mystery didn't do any of those things.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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