AFC Savior
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too bad you guys still dont understand that Mystery acting the way he did IS HIS OWN NATURAL GAME
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
LostAndConfused said:if playing (and trying to succeed) in all those games that the girl in that video made Mystery go through is your idea of fun......do I need to finish?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Only because he's good at pickup and knew he'd get her. So fun and outcome dependance are always linked. It's never been any different.AFC Savior said:you dont think Mystery was having fun there?
Try to look past how he does what he does and look at what he is doing and try to understand why he's doing it.DonJoseCantosie said:That's the problem. It's his own. Just cuz it works for him naturally, doesn't mean it'll work for someone else naturally.![]()
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I highly doubt Mystery pulls a lot of smoking hot women. He pulls the cute and average chicks. Don't believe the hype.DJVladdy said:Lol Chris, notice how mystery has none of these: probably does not work out, isnt tan, doesnt look masculine, dressed like a parrot... this n!gga look like he just escaped from the zoo... but hey hes doing his thing so good for him
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ChrizZ said:I highly doubt Mystery pulls a lot of smoking hot women. He pulls the cute and average chicks. Don't believe the hype.
What did Mystery do out of all of that other than wearing a koala on his head in order to stand out?ChrizZ said:It's not rocket science.
Make yourself as hot as possible. Wear a suit that makes you stand out. Work out 5x a week. Get a haircut and maybe some facial hair that makes you look more masculine. Get a tan, too...
He used the Social Sciences of Psychology/Sociology, and applied it to picking up women. And surprisingly..it works.Francisco d'Anconia said:What did Mystery do out of all of that other than wearing a koala on his head in order to stand out?
That was apparent but ChrizZ said that all you need to do is "Make yourself as hot as possible. Wear a suit that makes you stand out. Work out 5x a week. Get a haircut and maybe some facial hair that makes you look more masculine. Get a tan, too..." And Mystery didn't do any of those things.Evolution said:He used the Social Sciences of Psychology/Sociology, and applied it to picking up women. And surprisingly..it works.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.