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too bad you guys still dont understand that Mystery acting the way he did IS HIS OWN NATURAL GAME
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why Mystery has so much success
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
DonJoseCantosie
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That's the problem. It's his own. Just cuz it works for him naturally, doesn't mean it'll work for someone else naturally. 
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his message is to develop a likeable fun personality and then project it in your pickups!!
in other words, dont be a depressed AFC whos hitting on girls without even having any fun with it!!!
in other words, dont be a depressed AFC whos hitting on girls without even having any fun with it!!!
LostAndConfused
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if playing (and trying to succeed) in all those games that the girl in that video made Mystery go through is your idea of fun......do I need to finish?
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LostAndConfused said:
you dont think Mystery was having fun there?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Francisco d'Anconia
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Try to look past how he does what he does and look at what he is doing and try to understand why he's doing it.DonJoseCantosie said:That's the problem. It's his own. Just cuz it works for him naturally, doesn't mean it'll work for someone else naturally.
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Snow Plowman
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lol @ this thread...
Why does everything have to be considered stage and why does everyone have something negative to say. I didn't see anything wrong with that whole set. He actually plowed it well.
The chick isn't giggling and jumping all over the place because he doesn't really use buying temperature based game. This guy sucks chicks into his reality because he is intriguing.
This set was well done, and you can tell he is very calibrated.
While I don't like MM because of a few flaws, I still respect Mystery. Behind all the marketing hype, his fame, whatever, the man has game period.
There is alot of subtle stuff going on. It's around 50secs that she basically starts settling in the set.
Overall I like this one...
Why does everything have to be considered stage and why does everyone have something negative to say. I didn't see anything wrong with that whole set. He actually plowed it well.
The chick isn't giggling and jumping all over the place because he doesn't really use buying temperature based game. This guy sucks chicks into his reality because he is intriguing.
This set was well done, and you can tell he is very calibrated.
While I don't like MM because of a few flaws, I still respect Mystery. Behind all the marketing hype, his fame, whatever, the man has game period.
There is alot of subtle stuff going on. It's around 50secs that she basically starts settling in the set.
Overall I like this one...
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why mystery sounds gay?
The Deacon
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Ahhh! Mystery Method, believe it or not, isn't about routines. It's just based on the idea that women respond to social value as much, if not more, than they do looks. When Mystery Method is done right, you're the coolest guy in the entire bar, even if you'll have lots of haters who say you sound like a nasal chick or w/e. Mystery is a friggin genius, though, and what he says about social value is really spot on.
Neil Strauss is just the perfect example. He has a nasal voice, he's actually more effeminate, yet the guy gets some pretty hot chicks (yes, I know Leveridge divorced him, but he also banged her, so stfu player-haters). It's not cause of his looks, but the fact that he knows how to present himself as a socially valuable individual. Women want to marry up on the social scale, NOT down on the social scale.
Are women sexually attracted to men who are higher in social value? Debatable. Some women marry rich wall-street dudes and bang their pool-boys. Do women want to be around guys who are interesting? Duh.
I think people just hate Mystery Method because they don't really understand what point he's trying to get across.
Neil Strauss is just the perfect example. He has a nasal voice, he's actually more effeminate, yet the guy gets some pretty hot chicks (yes, I know Leveridge divorced him, but he also banged her, so stfu player-haters). It's not cause of his looks, but the fact that he knows how to present himself as a socially valuable individual. Women want to marry up on the social scale, NOT down on the social scale.
Are women sexually attracted to men who are higher in social value? Debatable. Some women marry rich wall-street dudes and bang their pool-boys. Do women want to be around guys who are interesting? Duh.
I think people just hate Mystery Method because they don't really understand what point he's trying to get across.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Good approach, but not good example for the new guys like me, cuz the stuck up bytch was obviously not choosin, enough said.
p.s. why are you guys arguing whether its fake or not? Open ur eyes: look at the guy closer to the camera: another guy tries to move him with his hand like 3-4 times as if to say "stop blocking the camera" wow.
p.s. why are you guys arguing whether its fake or not? Open ur eyes: look at the guy closer to the camera: another guy tries to move him with his hand like 3-4 times as if to say "stop blocking the camera" wow.
It's not rocket science.
Make yourself as hot as possible. Wear a suit that makes you stand out. Work out 5x a week. Get a haircut and maybe some facial hair that makes you look more masculine. Get a tan, too.
After that go into a club and just start talking to a chick, don't compliment her and ask her about her life and voila, you can take her home.
Make yourself as hot as possible. Wear a suit that makes you stand out. Work out 5x a week. Get a haircut and maybe some facial hair that makes you look more masculine. Get a tan, too.
After that go into a club and just start talking to a chick, don't compliment her and ask her about her life and voila, you can take her home.
Lol Chris, notice how mystery has none of these: probably does not work out, isnt tan, doesnt look masculine, dressed like a parrot... this n!gga look like he just escaped from the zoo... but hey hes doing his thing so good for him
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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ChrizZ said:
dont set your standards so high that u'll end up single and lonely forever
Francisco d'Anconia
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What did Mystery do out of all of that other than wearing a koala on his head in order to stand out?ChrizZ said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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That was apparent but ChrizZ said that all you need to do is "Make yourself as hot as possible. Wear a suit that makes you stand out. Work out 5x a week. Get a haircut and maybe some facial hair that makes you look more masculine. Get a tan, too..." And Mystery didn't do any of those things.Evolution said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.