AFC Savior
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- Nov 20, 2007
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too bad you guys still dont understand that Mystery acting the way he did IS HIS OWN NATURAL GAME
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LostAndConfused said:if playing (and trying to succeed) in all those games that the girl in that video made Mystery go through is your idea of fun......do I need to finish?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Only because he's good at pickup and knew he'd get her. So fun and outcome dependance are always linked. It's never been any different.AFC Savior said:you dont think Mystery was having fun there?
Try to look past how he does what he does and look at what he is doing and try to understand why he's doing it.DonJoseCantosie said:That's the problem. It's his own. Just cuz it works for him naturally, doesn't mean it'll work for someone else naturally.![]()
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I highly doubt Mystery pulls a lot of smoking hot women. He pulls the cute and average chicks. Don't believe the hype.DJVladdy said:Lol Chris, notice how mystery has none of these: probably does not work out, isnt tan, doesnt look masculine, dressed like a parrot... this n!gga look like he just escaped from the zoo... but hey hes doing his thing so good for him
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ChrizZ said:I highly doubt Mystery pulls a lot of smoking hot women. He pulls the cute and average chicks. Don't believe the hype.
What did Mystery do out of all of that other than wearing a koala on his head in order to stand out?ChrizZ said:It's not rocket science.
Make yourself as hot as possible. Wear a suit that makes you stand out. Work out 5x a week. Get a haircut and maybe some facial hair that makes you look more masculine. Get a tan, too...
He used the Social Sciences of Psychology/Sociology, and applied it to picking up women. And surprisingly..it works.Francisco d'Anconia said:What did Mystery do out of all of that other than wearing a koala on his head in order to stand out?
That was apparent but ChrizZ said that all you need to do is "Make yourself as hot as possible. Wear a suit that makes you stand out. Work out 5x a week. Get a haircut and maybe some facial hair that makes you look more masculine. Get a tan, too..." And Mystery didn't do any of those things.Evolution said:He used the Social Sciences of Psychology/Sociology, and applied it to picking up women. And surprisingly..it works.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.