AFC Savior
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- Nov 20, 2007
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too bad you guys still dont understand that Mystery acting the way he did IS HIS OWN NATURAL GAME
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LostAndConfused said:if playing (and trying to succeed) in all those games that the girl in that video made Mystery go through is your idea of fun......do I need to finish?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Only because he's good at pickup and knew he'd get her. So fun and outcome dependance are always linked. It's never been any different.AFC Savior said:you dont think Mystery was having fun there?
Try to look past how he does what he does and look at what he is doing and try to understand why he's doing it.DonJoseCantosie said:That's the problem. It's his own. Just cuz it works for him naturally, doesn't mean it'll work for someone else naturally.![]()
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I highly doubt Mystery pulls a lot of smoking hot women. He pulls the cute and average chicks. Don't believe the hype.DJVladdy said:Lol Chris, notice how mystery has none of these: probably does not work out, isnt tan, doesnt look masculine, dressed like a parrot... this n!gga look like he just escaped from the zoo... but hey hes doing his thing so good for him
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
ChrizZ said:I highly doubt Mystery pulls a lot of smoking hot women. He pulls the cute and average chicks. Don't believe the hype.
What did Mystery do out of all of that other than wearing a koala on his head in order to stand out?ChrizZ said:It's not rocket science.
Make yourself as hot as possible. Wear a suit that makes you stand out. Work out 5x a week. Get a haircut and maybe some facial hair that makes you look more masculine. Get a tan, too...
He used the Social Sciences of Psychology/Sociology, and applied it to picking up women. And surprisingly..it works.Francisco d'Anconia said:What did Mystery do out of all of that other than wearing a koala on his head in order to stand out?
That was apparent but ChrizZ said that all you need to do is "Make yourself as hot as possible. Wear a suit that makes you stand out. Work out 5x a week. Get a haircut and maybe some facial hair that makes you look more masculine. Get a tan, too..." And Mystery didn't do any of those things.Evolution said:He used the Social Sciences of Psychology/Sociology, and applied it to picking up women. And surprisingly..it works.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.