lokariototal
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Why? Why everybody think so much about it! It's a big deal at least for me! How can i make it not such a big of a deal?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Why is getting women such a big deal?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
moneyisking
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B/c we all bought into this society bull sh!t and corporate machine, that if a guy gets laid, he is cool. That's bull sh!t; cool guy gets laid, getting laid doesn't make him cool. Focus on yourself first, women later
nilescrane
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I can honestly say though that unless she's a family member, if a girl isn't my type physically, or at least "not bad" to look at as eye candy, I don't waste time bringing or trying to bring her into my life. Some guys are social animals and just interact with anyone, and you never know who may have connections or know a hot girl, but my only objective is having sex with women I think are hot and getting to know them if they're cool as well as hot.
Not because of society, because beautiful women, other than playing and listening to music, give me a rush like no other. Looking at and touching a beautiful naked woman is one of the best things in the world.
Not because of society, because beautiful women, other than playing and listening to music, give me a rush like no other. Looking at and touching a beautiful naked woman is one of the best things in the world.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Prodigy746
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Very well said.. We want things we cant get until we get them than its not such a big deal.Warrior74 said:
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
It's not a big deal. Though, some people make it out to be a huge deal that getting women is everything. But, it isnt. If you get outta that mindset everything becomes easier.
nismo-4
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If you can't get any, then you're very likely to get ridiculed by your guy friends. If you can, then you've got cool points.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.