lokariototal
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Why? Why everybody think so much about it! It's a big deal at least for me! How can i make it not such a big of a deal?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Why is getting women such a big deal?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
moneyisking
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B/c we all bought into this society bull sh!t and corporate machine, that if a guy gets laid, he is cool. That's bull sh!t; cool guy gets laid, getting laid doesn't make him cool. Focus on yourself first, women later
nilescrane
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I can honestly say though that unless she's a family member, if a girl isn't my type physically, or at least "not bad" to look at as eye candy, I don't waste time bringing or trying to bring her into my life. Some guys are social animals and just interact with anyone, and you never know who may have connections or know a hot girl, but my only objective is having sex with women I think are hot and getting to know them if they're cool as well as hot.
Not because of society, because beautiful women, other than playing and listening to music, give me a rush like no other. Looking at and touching a beautiful naked woman is one of the best things in the world.
Not because of society, because beautiful women, other than playing and listening to music, give me a rush like no other. Looking at and touching a beautiful naked woman is one of the best things in the world.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Prodigy746
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Very well said.. We want things we cant get until we get them than its not such a big deal.Warrior74 said:
I.A.F.Y.B.
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It's not a big deal. Though, some people make it out to be a huge deal that getting women is everything. But, it isnt. If you get outta that mindset everything becomes easier.
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If you can't get any, then you're very likely to get ridiculed by your guy friends. If you can, then you've got cool points.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.