lokariototal
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Why? Why everybody think so much about it! It's a big deal at least for me! How can i make it not such a big of a deal?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Why is getting women such a big deal?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
moneyisking
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B/c we all bought into this society bull sh!t and corporate machine, that if a guy gets laid, he is cool. That's bull sh!t; cool guy gets laid, getting laid doesn't make him cool. Focus on yourself first, women later
nilescrane
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I can honestly say though that unless she's a family member, if a girl isn't my type physically, or at least "not bad" to look at as eye candy, I don't waste time bringing or trying to bring her into my life. Some guys are social animals and just interact with anyone, and you never know who may have connections or know a hot girl, but my only objective is having sex with women I think are hot and getting to know them if they're cool as well as hot.
Not because of society, because beautiful women, other than playing and listening to music, give me a rush like no other. Looking at and touching a beautiful naked woman is one of the best things in the world.
Not because of society, because beautiful women, other than playing and listening to music, give me a rush like no other. Looking at and touching a beautiful naked woman is one of the best things in the world.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Prodigy746
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Very well said.. We want things we cant get until we get them than its not such a big deal.Warrior74 said:
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
It's not a big deal. Though, some people make it out to be a huge deal that getting women is everything. But, it isnt. If you get outta that mindset everything becomes easier.
nismo-4
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If you can't get any, then you're very likely to get ridiculed by your guy friends. If you can, then you've got cool points.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.