lokariototal
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Why? Why everybody think so much about it! It's a big deal at least for me! How can i make it not such a big of a deal?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Why is getting women such a big deal?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
moneyisking
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B/c we all bought into this society bull sh!t and corporate machine, that if a guy gets laid, he is cool. That's bull sh!t; cool guy gets laid, getting laid doesn't make him cool. Focus on yourself first, women later
nilescrane
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I can honestly say though that unless she's a family member, if a girl isn't my type physically, or at least "not bad" to look at as eye candy, I don't waste time bringing or trying to bring her into my life. Some guys are social animals and just interact with anyone, and you never know who may have connections or know a hot girl, but my only objective is having sex with women I think are hot and getting to know them if they're cool as well as hot.
Not because of society, because beautiful women, other than playing and listening to music, give me a rush like no other. Looking at and touching a beautiful naked woman is one of the best things in the world.
Not because of society, because beautiful women, other than playing and listening to music, give me a rush like no other. Looking at and touching a beautiful naked woman is one of the best things in the world.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Prodigy746
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Very well said.. We want things we cant get until we get them than its not such a big deal.Warrior74 said:
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
It's not a big deal. Though, some people make it out to be a huge deal that getting women is everything. But, it isnt. If you get outta that mindset everything becomes easier.
nismo-4
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If you can't get any, then you're very likely to get ridiculed by your guy friends. If you can, then you've got cool points.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.