lokariototal
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Why? Why everybody think so much about it! It's a big deal at least for me! How can i make it not such a big of a deal?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Why is getting women such a big deal?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
moneyisking
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B/c we all bought into this society bull sh!t and corporate machine, that if a guy gets laid, he is cool. That's bull sh!t; cool guy gets laid, getting laid doesn't make him cool. Focus on yourself first, women later
nilescrane
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I can honestly say though that unless she's a family member, if a girl isn't my type physically, or at least "not bad" to look at as eye candy, I don't waste time bringing or trying to bring her into my life. Some guys are social animals and just interact with anyone, and you never know who may have connections or know a hot girl, but my only objective is having sex with women I think are hot and getting to know them if they're cool as well as hot.
Not because of society, because beautiful women, other than playing and listening to music, give me a rush like no other. Looking at and touching a beautiful naked woman is one of the best things in the world.
Not because of society, because beautiful women, other than playing and listening to music, give me a rush like no other. Looking at and touching a beautiful naked woman is one of the best things in the world.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Prodigy746
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Very well said.. We want things we cant get until we get them than its not such a big deal.Warrior74 said:
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It's not a big deal. Though, some people make it out to be a huge deal that getting women is everything. But, it isnt. If you get outta that mindset everything becomes easier.
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If you can't get any, then you're very likely to get ridiculed by your guy friends. If you can, then you've got cool points.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.