Why Good Men Are Giving Up on Dating : The Relationship Struggle No One Wants to Talk About

[SW15]

Women have been getting fussier in recent years and rejecting a higher percentage of men.

There are more single men than single women in younger age groups. A good percentage of men are worthless rejects to women.

 

[BaronOfHair]

One way to view our current era:

"Most of your male competitors are addicted to porn, weed, and alcohol, and stuck in a dead-end 9-to-5 job with zero ambitions.

It's not that hard to be above-average"

Source

Mastering Manhood

Most of your male competitors are addicted to porn, weed, and alcohol, and stuck in a dead-end 9-to-5 job with zero ambitions. It's not that hard to be above-average.

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[Smok1nAce]

One way to view our current era:

"Most of your male competitors are addicted to porn, weed, and alcohol, and stuck in a dead-end 9-to-5 job with zero ambitions.

It's not that hard to be above-average"

Source

Mastering Manhood

Most of your male competitors are addicted to porn, weed, and alcohol, and stuck in a dead-end 9-to-5 job with zero ambitions. It's not that hard to be above-average.

www.facebook.com

Having a decent 9-5 job is not bad in this economy. Unless you’re making significant more money moving up the corporate later is not what it used to be.

The current dating market can be summed up as the aftermath from a raid from rich boomers, ceo tycoons, gen xers and dubi princes.

The ladder has been pulled up. We’re stuck with radicalized women and demoralized men.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Modern young women don’t have the social skills/ grace older women have had.

You have to be able to read her. Once you do it’s easy to see what girls might be serious to what girl aren’t.

Let's not even talk about the social skills young men have or lack...they have a baseline autistic level almost these days

 

[Smok1nAce]

Let's not even talk about the social skills young men have or lack...they have a baseline autistic level almost these days

I agree.

But I think that’s a consequence of social decay where men just don’t care.

 

[SW15]

Having a decent 9-5 job is not bad in this economy.

Having a job in 2025 is a major achievement with all of the layoffs going on.

Unless you’re making significant more money moving up the corporate later is not what it used to be.

True

Let's not even talk about the social skills young men have or lack...they have a baseline autistic level almost these days

Gen Z has poor social skills. This is a continuation from the Millennial generation, whose social skills were noticeably worse than Gen X's.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

I agree.

But I think that’s a consequence of social decay where men just don’t care.

It's a consequence of growing up playing video games and being on devices 24/7 even when with their friends when they are 2 feet away. Ever see them "hanging out"? 5-6 kids sitting around texting each other.

We used to be outside playing from 10am to sun down on weekends and in the summer and after school during the year. Now these kids probably don't even spend the time outside in a month that we did in a day.

Social skills come from daily practice especially during formative years. They have had almost none of that. We learned how to deal with situations, conflict, conflict resolution, how to deal with people we didn't particularly like all that much, how to be persuasive, laughing, joking, etc

Would be like someone working out once a month thinking that's going to lead to them being a bodybuilder and then quitting when they see terrible results. The premise makes no sense.

 

[Solomon]

One way to view our current era:

"Most of your male competitors are addicted to porn, weed, and alcohol, and stuck in a dead-end 9-to-5 job with zero ambitions.

It's not that hard to be above-average"

Source

Mastering Manhood

Most of your male competitors are addicted to porn, weed, and alcohol, and stuck in a dead-end 9-to-5 job with zero ambitions. It's not that hard to be above-average.

www.facebook.com

Yup The younger you are and if you have a decent job and in shape it makes you stand out. I see guys in their early 30s already giving up which is crazy

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Mostly they are giving up on themselves because they fail to realize all of the things they think they should be doing to get a woman they actually should be doing for themselves.

 

[BaronOfHair]

But I think that’s a consequence of social decay where men just don’t care.

Entirely too many fellas have been hoodwinked by a Manosphere rendition of the same poisonous belief system that Critical Theory/Intersectionality has been instilling in non-whites, women, and gays since the late 1960s: "All of our difficulties are MOSTLY the fault of a social order that's inherently evil and corrupt, so we shouldn't have to do anything... Society needs to change, BEFORE we make moves for ourselves"

Such a worldview is no less insane than saying to oneself "I didn't design my body in such a way as to require defecation, therefore I shouldn't have to wash my ass on a daily basis... The Almight/Nature/The Godess/The Source needs to redesign things, before I take any action of my own". Nonetheless, a large segment of America now essentially believes this very thing