kingwilliam
Senior Don Juan
Guys I really appreciate the input......especially that last few posts. Have you ever seen that movie Boomerang?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Why don't I like this girl?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
kingwilliam said:Guys I really appreciate the input......especially that last few posts. Have you ever seen that movie Boomerang?
I was GOING TO SAY that!!! Wow...
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Lol, thanks for proving my point. Men THINK that's what they want. Til a don juana comes along and runs a few sh!t tests and other confusing "games" on him, and then he becomesMad Manic said:No, nearly all men want sex with attractive women. Everyone knows that. Logical, simple, obvious.
Trust me men, some of you are ahead of the game... and so are some of us womenkind.Mad Manic said:a bag of emotions ...and thus don't know what they want outside of "the moment"...
Be afraid. Be very afraid...
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A woman is desired for her complimentary femininity and not solely for her physical structure!!! Why would anyone surmise otherwise?kingwilliam said:I recently have been hanging out with what should be the ideal woman. She is beautiful, funny, loves football, cooks like a chef, insists on paying for things when we go out.............
I have always thought this girl was really hot over the past few years.....I knew her, but I never pursued it because honestly there was a point when I felt she was out of my league. (I realize now there are no "leagues") Anyway, now that I basically have her, I am just not into it. It bothers me on a couple of different levels.
First, I have picked up so many women over the past couple of years....and I have a bad habit of deciding whether or not they are gf material in the first 5 minutes. With this girl, I figured she was perfect....and she seems to be perfect. She is smokin hot.....literally looks like J-Lo, but for some reason I am not even all that turned on by her sexually either. I mean I have banged her a few times.......blah blah blah
Which brings me to my second concern: Am I ever going to be happy with a woman??? I am I too picky? WTF???
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Can you stand spending time with her? Does she bore you? Does what she say turn you off? If so, then she's not for you. She might be hot, but you sound like a decent guy - that looks don't mean as much as you wished it did.