kingwilliam
Senior Don Juan
Guys I really appreciate the input......especially that last few posts. Have you ever seen that movie Boomerang?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why don't I like this girl?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
kingwilliam said:Guys I really appreciate the input......especially that last few posts. Have you ever seen that movie Boomerang?
I was GOING TO SAY that!!! Wow...
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Lol, thanks for proving my point. Men THINK that's what they want. Til a don juana comes along and runs a few sh!t tests and other confusing "games" on him, and then he becomesMad Manic said:No, nearly all men want sex with attractive women. Everyone knows that. Logical, simple, obvious.
Trust me men, some of you are ahead of the game... and so are some of us womenkind.Mad Manic said:a bag of emotions ...and thus don't know what they want outside of "the moment"...
Be afraid. Be very afraid...
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A woman is desired for her complimentary femininity and not solely for her physical structure!!! Why would anyone surmise otherwise?kingwilliam said:I recently have been hanging out with what should be the ideal woman. She is beautiful, funny, loves football, cooks like a chef, insists on paying for things when we go out.............
I have always thought this girl was really hot over the past few years.....I knew her, but I never pursued it because honestly there was a point when I felt she was out of my league. (I realize now there are no "leagues") Anyway, now that I basically have her, I am just not into it. It bothers me on a couple of different levels.
First, I have picked up so many women over the past couple of years....and I have a bad habit of deciding whether or not they are gf material in the first 5 minutes. With this girl, I figured she was perfect....and she seems to be perfect. She is smokin hot.....literally looks like J-Lo, but for some reason I am not even all that turned on by her sexually either. I mean I have banged her a few times.......blah blah blah
Which brings me to my second concern: Am I ever going to be happy with a woman??? I am I too picky? WTF???
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Can you stand spending time with her? Does she bore you? Does what she say turn you off? If so, then she's not for you. She might be hot, but you sound like a decent guy - that looks don't mean as much as you wished it did.