kingwilliam
Senior Don Juan
Guys I really appreciate the input......especially that last few posts. Have you ever seen that movie Boomerang?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Why don't I like this girl?
- Thread starter kingwilliam
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
kingwilliam said:Guys I really appreciate the input......especially that last few posts. Have you ever seen that movie Boomerang?
I was GOING TO SAY that!!! Wow...
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Lol, thanks for proving my point. Men THINK that's what they want. Til a don juana comes along and runs a few sh!t tests and other confusing "games" on him, and then he becomesMad Manic said:No, nearly all men want sex with attractive women. Everyone knows that. Logical, simple, obvious.
Trust me men, some of you are ahead of the game... and so are some of us womenkind.Mad Manic said:a bag of emotions ...and thus don't know what they want outside of "the moment"...
Be afraid. Be very afraid...
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A woman is desired for her complimentary femininity and not solely for her physical structure!!! Why would anyone surmise otherwise?kingwilliam said:I recently have been hanging out with what should be the ideal woman. She is beautiful, funny, loves football, cooks like a chef, insists on paying for things when we go out.............
I have always thought this girl was really hot over the past few years.....I knew her, but I never pursued it because honestly there was a point when I felt she was out of my league. (I realize now there are no "leagues") Anyway, now that I basically have her, I am just not into it. It bothers me on a couple of different levels.
First, I have picked up so many women over the past couple of years....and I have a bad habit of deciding whether or not they are gf material in the first 5 minutes. With this girl, I figured she was perfect....and she seems to be perfect. She is smokin hot.....literally looks like J-Lo, but for some reason I am not even all that turned on by her sexually either. I mean I have banged her a few times.......blah blah blah
Which brings me to my second concern: Am I ever going to be happy with a woman??? I am I too picky? WTF???
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Can you stand spending time with her? Does she bore you? Does what she say turn you off? If so, then she's not for you. She might be hot, but you sound like a decent guy - that looks don't mean as much as you wished it did.