"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why don't I like this girl?

kingwilliam

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Guys I really appreciate the input......especially that last few posts. Have you ever seen that movie Boomerang?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mad Manic said:
No, nearly all men want sex with attractive women. Everyone knows that. Logical, simple, obvious.
Lol, thanks for proving my point. Men THINK that's what they want. Til a don juana comes along and runs a few sh!t tests and other confusing "games" on him, and then he becomes

Mad Manic said:
a bag of emotions ...and thus don't know what they want outside of "the moment"...
Trust me men, some of you are ahead of the game... and so are some of us womenkind.

Be afraid. Be very afraid...

Muahahahahahaa!
 
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kingwilliam said:
I recently have been hanging out with what should be the ideal woman. She is beautiful, funny, loves football, cooks like a chef, insists on paying for things when we go out.............

I have always thought this girl was really hot over the past few years.....I knew her, but I never pursued it because honestly there was a point when I felt she was out of my league. (I realize now there are no "leagues") Anyway, now that I basically have her, I am just not into it. It bothers me on a couple of different levels.

First, I have picked up so many women over the past couple of years....and I have a bad habit of deciding whether or not they are gf material in the first 5 minutes. With this girl, I figured she was perfect....and she seems to be perfect. She is smokin hot.....literally looks like J-Lo, but for some reason I am not even all that turned on by her sexually either. I mean I have banged her a few times.......blah blah blah

Which brings me to my second concern: Am I ever going to be happy with a woman??? I am I too picky? WTF???
A woman is desired for her complimentary femininity and not solely for her physical structure!!! Why would anyone surmise otherwise?
 

Tazman

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This post sounds like more of an ego stroke then a genuine problem, unless we aren't getting the real truth, but then it would be pointless I guess (not that it doesn't already seem that way).
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Can you stand spending time with her? Does she bore you? Does what she say turn you off? If so, then she's not for you. She might be hot, but you sound like a decent guy - that looks don't mean as much as you wished it did.
 
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