kingwilliam
Senior Don Juan
Guys I really appreciate the input......especially that last few posts. Have you ever seen that movie Boomerang?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Why don't I like this girl?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
iqqi
Master Don Juan
kingwilliam said:Guys I really appreciate the input......especially that last few posts. Have you ever seen that movie Boomerang?
I was GOING TO SAY that!!! Wow...
iqqi
Master Don Juan
Lol, thanks for proving my point. Men THINK that's what they want. Til a don juana comes along and runs a few sh!t tests and other confusing "games" on him, and then he becomesMad Manic said:No, nearly all men want sex with attractive women. Everyone knows that. Logical, simple, obvious.
Trust me men, some of you are ahead of the game... and so are some of us womenkind.Mad Manic said:a bag of emotions ...and thus don't know what they want outside of "the moment"...
Be afraid. Be very afraid...
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A woman is desired for her complimentary femininity and not solely for her physical structure!!! Why would anyone surmise otherwise?kingwilliam said:I recently have been hanging out with what should be the ideal woman. She is beautiful, funny, loves football, cooks like a chef, insists on paying for things when we go out.............
I have always thought this girl was really hot over the past few years.....I knew her, but I never pursued it because honestly there was a point when I felt she was out of my league. (I realize now there are no "leagues") Anyway, now that I basically have her, I am just not into it. It bothers me on a couple of different levels.
First, I have picked up so many women over the past couple of years....and I have a bad habit of deciding whether or not they are gf material in the first 5 minutes. With this girl, I figured she was perfect....and she seems to be perfect. She is smokin hot.....literally looks like J-Lo, but for some reason I am not even all that turned on by her sexually either. I mean I have banged her a few times.......blah blah blah
Which brings me to my second concern: Am I ever going to be happy with a woman??? I am I too picky? WTF???
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Can you stand spending time with her? Does she bore you? Does what she say turn you off? If so, then she's not for you. She might be hot, but you sound like a decent guy - that looks don't mean as much as you wished it did.