"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why does she do this?

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There's this girl I'm talking to. We're pretty close. I haven't asked her out on a date yet but I will :) . She seemed totally interested in me and yet at the same time didn't. There are some days where she will acknowledge me and we will absolutely have each other's attention. There are days where we would talk a lot and there would be a lot of flirting between us. As soon as it seems she is very interested she will ignore me for a few days, then out of nowhere talk and flirt with me again.
I also remember a time where she wasn't talking to me for about a couple days and she saw me hug and talk to another girl as she walked by. She walked by us hugging and she called my name. I turned around and just said, Hey **so and so** and continued talking to the other girl. And that very night the girl that ignored me hit me up on facebook. Does that mean anything?
Why is it she will ignore me one day and then be completely interested the next? This happens EVERY single week.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This is female's fvcked up brain . Show dominance on her , and get her .
With being a wuss , she will continue playing these silly games .

My oneities was like this. Flirting with me , than jumping on the other guys just to see my reaction , than not looking at me . It was until i apocalypsed her :D. You can see my FR about this .
 

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i read your FR. really really good. should i try and do wat u did? (hopefully she'll react the same way)
 

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Dawg, listen 2 me n listen well. Ask this girl out NOW n stop wasting time(what eva the f**k u waiting 4). If u dont do it now she will c u as ahh shame (harmless) n keep promising u a date that will never happen!
 
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FiveFive said:
i read your FR. really really good. should i try and do wat u did? (hopefully she'll react the same way)
I dont know your level of game man . I've been on this for 1 year and i've been working on field intensively and my skills have been improved drastically .

But what i recommend you , is to start gaming her ASAP . Just do it , show dominance , energy , positivity , confidence and i think youll get her .
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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aight thanks fellow DJs...if any1 else has any other ideas tho i'd love to hear em
 

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UPDATE- I asked her out on a date and she sed she'd love to go but this weekend shes out of town and then the next she's out of town but after shes "all mine"..it came from her mouth not mine lol...is this just friendly u think or dus she see me as bf material?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FiveFive said:
UPDATE- I asked her out on a date and she sed she'd love to go but this weekend shes out of town and then the next she's out of town but after shes "all mine"..it came from her mouth not mine lol...is this just friendly u think or dus she see me as bf material?
FVCKING GREAT .

I love you man for grabbing the balls and asking her out . Hope you learned a good lesson here.

All these chumps scared to death from asking a girl to fvcking go out and have fun should feel motivated by this thread .

Now your mindset should be : Ok , im taking this girl out , and she's honored because she will have fun with me . Here are some threads about first date , and maybe you can find some things .

But dont go with scripted material , dont be too ****y , dont be wuss , be positive , dont fall into her frame (draw her into yours ) , convey confidence and high value and the least but not the last SH!T LOADS OF KINO . And escalate on her . Shes already attracted so you wont be rejected .
 
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