"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why does she do this?

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There's this girl I'm talking to. We're pretty close. I haven't asked her out on a date yet but I will :) . She seemed totally interested in me and yet at the same time didn't. There are some days where she will acknowledge me and we will absolutely have each other's attention. There are days where we would talk a lot and there would be a lot of flirting between us. As soon as it seems she is very interested she will ignore me for a few days, then out of nowhere talk and flirt with me again.
I also remember a time where she wasn't talking to me for about a couple days and she saw me hug and talk to another girl as she walked by. She walked by us hugging and she called my name. I turned around and just said, Hey **so and so** and continued talking to the other girl. And that very night the girl that ignored me hit me up on facebook. Does that mean anything?
Why is it she will ignore me one day and then be completely interested the next? This happens EVERY single week.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is female's fvcked up brain . Show dominance on her , and get her .
With being a wuss , she will continue playing these silly games .

My oneities was like this. Flirting with me , than jumping on the other guys just to see my reaction , than not looking at me . It was until i apocalypsed her :D. You can see my FR about this .
 

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i read your FR. really really good. should i try and do wat u did? (hopefully she'll react the same way)
 

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Dawg, listen 2 me n listen well. Ask this girl out NOW n stop wasting time(what eva the f**k u waiting 4). If u dont do it now she will c u as ahh shame (harmless) n keep promising u a date that will never happen!
 
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FiveFive said:
i read your FR. really really good. should i try and do wat u did? (hopefully she'll react the same way)
I dont know your level of game man . I've been on this for 1 year and i've been working on field intensively and my skills have been improved drastically .

But what i recommend you , is to start gaming her ASAP . Just do it , show dominance , energy , positivity , confidence and i think youll get her .
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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aight thanks fellow DJs...if any1 else has any other ideas tho i'd love to hear em
 

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UPDATE- I asked her out on a date and she sed she'd love to go but this weekend shes out of town and then the next she's out of town but after shes "all mine"..it came from her mouth not mine lol...is this just friendly u think or dus she see me as bf material?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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FiveFive said:
UPDATE- I asked her out on a date and she sed she'd love to go but this weekend shes out of town and then the next she's out of town but after shes "all mine"..it came from her mouth not mine lol...is this just friendly u think or dus she see me as bf material?
FVCKING GREAT .

I love you man for grabbing the balls and asking her out . Hope you learned a good lesson here.

All these chumps scared to death from asking a girl to fvcking go out and have fun should feel motivated by this thread .

Now your mindset should be : Ok , im taking this girl out , and she's honored because she will have fun with me . Here are some threads about first date , and maybe you can find some things .

But dont go with scripted material , dont be too ****y , dont be wuss , be positive , dont fall into her frame (draw her into yours ) , convey confidence and high value and the least but not the last SH!T LOADS OF KINO . And escalate on her . Shes already attracted so you wont be rejected .
 
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