"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why does she do this?

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There's this girl I'm talking to. We're pretty close. I haven't asked her out on a date yet but I will :) . She seemed totally interested in me and yet at the same time didn't. There are some days where she will acknowledge me and we will absolutely have each other's attention. There are days where we would talk a lot and there would be a lot of flirting between us. As soon as it seems she is very interested she will ignore me for a few days, then out of nowhere talk and flirt with me again.
I also remember a time where she wasn't talking to me for about a couple days and she saw me hug and talk to another girl as she walked by. She walked by us hugging and she called my name. I turned around and just said, Hey **so and so** and continued talking to the other girl. And that very night the girl that ignored me hit me up on facebook. Does that mean anything?
Why is it she will ignore me one day and then be completely interested the next? This happens EVERY single week.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This is female's fvcked up brain . Show dominance on her , and get her .
With being a wuss , she will continue playing these silly games .

My oneities was like this. Flirting with me , than jumping on the other guys just to see my reaction , than not looking at me . It was until i apocalypsed her :D. You can see my FR about this .
 

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i read your FR. really really good. should i try and do wat u did? (hopefully she'll react the same way)
 

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Dawg, listen 2 me n listen well. Ask this girl out NOW n stop wasting time(what eva the f**k u waiting 4). If u dont do it now she will c u as ahh shame (harmless) n keep promising u a date that will never happen!
 
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FiveFive said:
i read your FR. really really good. should i try and do wat u did? (hopefully she'll react the same way)
I dont know your level of game man . I've been on this for 1 year and i've been working on field intensively and my skills have been improved drastically .

But what i recommend you , is to start gaming her ASAP . Just do it , show dominance , energy , positivity , confidence and i think youll get her .
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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aight thanks fellow DJs...if any1 else has any other ideas tho i'd love to hear em
 

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UPDATE- I asked her out on a date and she sed she'd love to go but this weekend shes out of town and then the next she's out of town but after shes "all mine"..it came from her mouth not mine lol...is this just friendly u think or dus she see me as bf material?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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FiveFive said:
UPDATE- I asked her out on a date and she sed she'd love to go but this weekend shes out of town and then the next she's out of town but after shes "all mine"..it came from her mouth not mine lol...is this just friendly u think or dus she see me as bf material?
FVCKING GREAT .

I love you man for grabbing the balls and asking her out . Hope you learned a good lesson here.

All these chumps scared to death from asking a girl to fvcking go out and have fun should feel motivated by this thread .

Now your mindset should be : Ok , im taking this girl out , and she's honored because she will have fun with me . Here are some threads about first date , and maybe you can find some things .

But dont go with scripted material , dont be too ****y , dont be wuss , be positive , dont fall into her frame (draw her into yours ) , convey confidence and high value and the least but not the last SH!T LOADS OF KINO . And escalate on her . Shes already attracted so you wont be rejected .
 
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