"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Why does she do this?

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There's this girl I'm talking to. We're pretty close. I haven't asked her out on a date yet but I will :) . She seemed totally interested in me and yet at the same time didn't. There are some days where she will acknowledge me and we will absolutely have each other's attention. There are days where we would talk a lot and there would be a lot of flirting between us. As soon as it seems she is very interested she will ignore me for a few days, then out of nowhere talk and flirt with me again.
I also remember a time where she wasn't talking to me for about a couple days and she saw me hug and talk to another girl as she walked by. She walked by us hugging and she called my name. I turned around and just said, Hey **so and so** and continued talking to the other girl. And that very night the girl that ignored me hit me up on facebook. Does that mean anything?
Why is it she will ignore me one day and then be completely interested the next? This happens EVERY single week.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is female's fvcked up brain . Show dominance on her , and get her .
With being a wuss , she will continue playing these silly games .

My oneities was like this. Flirting with me , than jumping on the other guys just to see my reaction , than not looking at me . It was until i apocalypsed her :D. You can see my FR about this .
 

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i read your FR. really really good. should i try and do wat u did? (hopefully she'll react the same way)
 

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Dawg, listen 2 me n listen well. Ask this girl out NOW n stop wasting time(what eva the f**k u waiting 4). If u dont do it now she will c u as ahh shame (harmless) n keep promising u a date that will never happen!
 
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FiveFive said:
i read your FR. really really good. should i try and do wat u did? (hopefully she'll react the same way)
I dont know your level of game man . I've been on this for 1 year and i've been working on field intensively and my skills have been improved drastically .

But what i recommend you , is to start gaming her ASAP . Just do it , show dominance , energy , positivity , confidence and i think youll get her .
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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aight thanks fellow DJs...if any1 else has any other ideas tho i'd love to hear em
 

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UPDATE- I asked her out on a date and she sed she'd love to go but this weekend shes out of town and then the next she's out of town but after shes "all mine"..it came from her mouth not mine lol...is this just friendly u think or dus she see me as bf material?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FiveFive said:
UPDATE- I asked her out on a date and she sed she'd love to go but this weekend shes out of town and then the next she's out of town but after shes "all mine"..it came from her mouth not mine lol...is this just friendly u think or dus she see me as bf material?
FVCKING GREAT .

I love you man for grabbing the balls and asking her out . Hope you learned a good lesson here.

All these chumps scared to death from asking a girl to fvcking go out and have fun should feel motivated by this thread .

Now your mindset should be : Ok , im taking this girl out , and she's honored because she will have fun with me . Here are some threads about first date , and maybe you can find some things .

But dont go with scripted material , dont be too ****y , dont be wuss , be positive , dont fall into her frame (draw her into yours ) , convey confidence and high value and the least but not the last SH!T LOADS OF KINO . And escalate on her . Shes already attracted so you wont be rejected .
 
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