First and foremost to gain respect. I want to be a bad ass mofo because I want to be respected by guys as equals. I don't like to be made fun of for my weight. I also don't get the proper respect from girls either. I also like to stay healthy too.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Why do YOU lift?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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For good looks and knockout power. Take a 140lb boxer and train him for speed, agility, footwork, coordination, skill... then give him the size and strength of a light heavyweight. That's a BAAAAAD man.
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My competing days ended when I bulked my first pound; when a fighter jumps many weight classes he's said to be "blown up" and is rarely better or even as good as he was at a lower weight.MrS said:Size and strength of a LHW at 140lb?
So, your inner CHI gives you a mighty 35lb edge when competing, but when walking amongst the mortals, you're a regular Kane?
At 140, Id spar with anyone who was available, including one hideous 210lb mofo who was as slow as maple syrup, but one clean shot could fly me back to Serbia free of charge. Think George Foreman post-comeback. Now as a bigger man its my turn to feast on these courageous punks
Do you mean the wrestler Kane? I cant see myself making past 200lbs at 6'0 in the next few years, even then Id still want no part of that 6'8 230lb (or whatever) monster. I couldnt possible compare myself to him.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.