First and foremost to gain respect. I want to be a bad ass mofo because I want to be respected by guys as equals. I don't like to be made fun of for my weight. I also don't get the proper respect from girls either. I also like to stay healthy too.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Why do YOU lift?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
6-heads lewis
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For good looks and knockout power. Take a 140lb boxer and train him for speed, agility, footwork, coordination, skill... then give him the size and strength of a light heavyweight. That's a BAAAAAD man.
6-heads lewis
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My competing days ended when I bulked my first pound; when a fighter jumps many weight classes he's said to be "blown up" and is rarely better or even as good as he was at a lower weight.MrS said:Size and strength of a LHW at 140lb?
So, your inner CHI gives you a mighty 35lb edge when competing, but when walking amongst the mortals, you're a regular Kane?
At 140, Id spar with anyone who was available, including one hideous 210lb mofo who was as slow as maple syrup, but one clean shot could fly me back to Serbia free of charge. Think George Foreman post-comeback. Now as a bigger man its my turn to feast on these courageous punks
Do you mean the wrestler Kane? I cant see myself making past 200lbs at 6'0 in the next few years, even then Id still want no part of that 6'8 230lb (or whatever) monster. I couldnt possible compare myself to him.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.