First and foremost to gain respect. I want to be a bad ass mofo because I want to be respected by guys as equals. I don't like to be made fun of for my weight. I also don't get the proper respect from girls either. I also like to stay healthy too.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Why do YOU lift?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
6-heads lewis
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For good looks and knockout power. Take a 140lb boxer and train him for speed, agility, footwork, coordination, skill... then give him the size and strength of a light heavyweight. That's a BAAAAAD man.
6-heads lewis
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My competing days ended when I bulked my first pound; when a fighter jumps many weight classes he's said to be "blown up" and is rarely better or even as good as he was at a lower weight.MrS said:Size and strength of a LHW at 140lb?
So, your inner CHI gives you a mighty 35lb edge when competing, but when walking amongst the mortals, you're a regular Kane?
At 140, Id spar with anyone who was available, including one hideous 210lb mofo who was as slow as maple syrup, but one clean shot could fly me back to Serbia free of charge. Think George Foreman post-comeback. Now as a bigger man its my turn to feast on these courageous punks
Do you mean the wrestler Kane? I cant see myself making past 200lbs at 6'0 in the next few years, even then Id still want no part of that 6'8 230lb (or whatever) monster. I couldnt possible compare myself to him.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.