First and foremost to gain respect. I want to be a bad ass mofo because I want to be respected by guys as equals. I don't like to be made fun of for my weight. I also don't get the proper respect from girls either. I also like to stay healthy too.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Why do YOU lift?
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
6-heads lewis
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For good looks and knockout power. Take a 140lb boxer and train him for speed, agility, footwork, coordination, skill... then give him the size and strength of a light heavyweight. That's a BAAAAAD man.
6-heads lewis
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My competing days ended when I bulked my first pound; when a fighter jumps many weight classes he's said to be "blown up" and is rarely better or even as good as he was at a lower weight.MrS said:Size and strength of a LHW at 140lb?
So, your inner CHI gives you a mighty 35lb edge when competing, but when walking amongst the mortals, you're a regular Kane?
At 140, Id spar with anyone who was available, including one hideous 210lb mofo who was as slow as maple syrup, but one clean shot could fly me back to Serbia free of charge. Think George Foreman post-comeback. Now as a bigger man its my turn to feast on these courageous punks
Do you mean the wrestler Kane? I cant see myself making past 200lbs at 6'0 in the next few years, even then Id still want no part of that 6'8 230lb (or whatever) monster. I couldnt possible compare myself to him.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.