Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
Just reported this to the mods. Take the race threads elsewhere.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Obesity therefore limited options + below average IQ + a lifetime diet of "thug lyfe" glorification from mainstream media + her own heritage and culture destroyed and demonized a decade before she was even born + no strong positive male influence throughout her entire existence.Why do white girls that date black guys HAVE to act ghetto
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
OK I believe you, I don’t know you well enough to judge otherwise so I’ll take that literally. I do think you asked the wrong question though.Robert28 said:Case in point.
I see this sh!t ALL the time! I don't care if a white girls dates a black dude,
Do you get off on never posting anything useful?LiveFreeX said:Do you get off on being a snitch>?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Here goes the deal, she might deal with an extreme type that doesn't fit her home life. I love her switching roles and using the different lingo. It shows the immaturity in her to be flip flopping like that.I just witnessed a fb with all kinds of posts about "only a black man will do" etc... She also uses the N word and changes her speech when she is with a black man. Funny thing is she's 42, married white men three times and has three white children.
I married a black man 22 years ago. Never advertise a preference, don't use that word and speak no differently than I did before I met him.
Some people are a trip, so what! Get a laugh out of it. Never let someone's stupidity bring you down.
Not necessarily...I've seen some 9's driving into the ghetto to spend the night at their thug boyfriends house from their suburban neighborhoods.Obesity therefore limited options + below average IQ + a lifetime diet of "thug lyfe" glorification from mainstream media + her own heritage and culture destroyed and demonized a decade before she was even born + no strong positive male influence throughout her entire existence.
In short offering absolutely nothing of worth to society. The end product of 5 decades of skillful and determined social re-engineering.
Questions?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
And the physical swag and body side of it too. It is a real thing. It's why I said body game is huge for us. Still they might want one who lives in a different world from them.Not necessarily...I've seen some 9's driving into the ghetto to spend the night at their thug boyfriends house from their suburban neighborhoods.
My thoughts are they are attracted to their I don't give a fvck attitudes, and are intrigued by what the stereotypes are about having huge c0cks...
I've known girls like this, they get together and talk about how they will never date a white guy. Well, good riddance to them, I guess lol. Like the OP says, I don't care if you want to date some black dude, shoot I like some ethnic diversity myself. But to swear off men from your own race, that sounds like there is some damage there, she's internalized some sort of bitterness in an excess amount.Well in her bio she plainly states in capital letters that "SHE DOES NOT DATE WHITE MENZ!!!"
When I browsed American girls' profiles I found the opposite. Only very few specified that they would only date black guys or that they were specifically into them, but it was common to see black girls who had some kind of fantasy about white men. I don't blame them. Getting kids with a black man is a good way to increase your chances of a broken family and ruined childhoods even compared to the general odds of that today, which is why I consider girls who specify they are into them to be higher on either the desperate (like my mom who was 36 when she got me and presumably was a leftover) or crazy chart.I've known girls like this, they get together and talk about how they will never date a white guy. Well, good riddance to them, I guess lol. Like the OP says, I don't care if you want to date some black dude, shoot I like some ethnic diversity myself. But to swear off men from your own race, that sounds like there is some damage there, she's internalized some sort of bitterness in an excess amount.
I will agree with that about black women liking white guys. I worked in a store in the middle of the ghetto for a long period of time with all black employees and mostly black customers. I used to get hit on constantly by the black women coming in, some of whom were very pretty(although hood rat types) and when I used to hang out with my coworkers we would go to all black clubs and I would be one of the only white guys in there and I used to have chicks coming up to me left and right like I was the main attraction or something...it was pretty wild. I have to say black women are much more direct and to the point than their white counterparts. I had several women in the club come up to me and tell me I look good and they wanted to fvck me, and they said exactly those words. I was pretty much in shock the first time it happened, but then I got used to it and played along with them. Banged a few of them, they were some of the biggest sex freaks I've ever met...actually had one as a plate for a little while...When I browsed American girls' profiles I found the opposite. Only very few specified that they would only date black guys or that they were specifically into them, but it was common to see black girls who had some kind of fantasy about white men. I don't blame them. Getting kids with a black man is a good way to increase your chances of a broken family and ruined childhoods even compared to the general odds of that today, which is why I consider girls who specify they are into them to be higher on either the desperate (like my mom who was 36 when she got me and presumably was a leftover) or crazy chart.
Talk about white privilege huh? hahaI will agree with that about black women liking white guys. I worked in a store in the middle of the ghetto for a long period of time with all black employees and mostly black customers. I used to get hit on constantly by the black women coming in, some of whom were very pretty(although hood rat types) and when I used to hang out with my coworkers we would go to all black clubs and I would be one of the only white guys in there and I used to have chicks coming up to me left and right like I was the main attraction or something...it was pretty wild. I have to say black women are much more direct and to the point than their white counterparts. I had several women in the club come up to me and tell me I look good and they wanted to fvck me, and they said exactly those words. I was pretty much in shock the first time it happened, but then I got used to it and played along with them. Banged a few of them, they were some of the biggest sex freaks I've ever met...actually had one as a plate for a little while...
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.