"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why do white girls that date black guys HAVE to act ghetto?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you use one profile to generalize an entire group of people, you are not only ignorant but incredibly stupid. The vast majority of white women go out of their way to avoid dating guys perceived as "ghetto". There's a reason why most of their profiles will specifically say "No ghetto guys plz", despite being open to date black men.
 

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Why do white girls that date black guys HAVE to act ghetto
Obesity therefore limited options + below average IQ + a lifetime diet of "thug lyfe" glorification from mainstream media + her own heritage and culture destroyed and demonized a decade before she was even born + no strong positive male influence throughout her entire existence.

In short offering absolutely nothing of worth to society. The end product of 5 decades of skillful and determined social re-engineering.

Questions?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Robert28 said:
Case in point.


I see this sh!t ALL the time! I don't care if a white girls dates a black dude,
OK I believe you, I don’t know you well enough to judge otherwise so I’ll take that literally. I do think you asked the wrong question though.
You do have me wondering however. ‘I wonder if the girls that like a particular sort of man be it bad boys, thugs, snobs, bikers or whatever, start to emulate their societal stereotypes’ That would blow the whole ‘opposite attracts’ theory out of the water.
Either way, Black or White, women are using us all the same, for whatever reason their hamster spins up at the time.

On a side note - We obviously have a more advanced form of prejudice in the UK.
If you are rich you can belittle everyone poorer/lesser educated than yourself regardless of race. It's equally as nasty but without the stigma
 

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"I want someone to love me and not just for my outer shell" HAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAH I LAUGHED SO ****ING HARD. this girl is a nutjob , ugly and fat as fvck, needs the god damn gym and she types like a neanderthal. Id also like to point out, not one period was used in her bio lol.

"AVERAGE BODY TYPE" I REALLY HOPE THIS IS NOT THE AVERAGE FEMALE BODY TYPE AHAHAHAHAHAH. Oh god I can always count onthe POF SS threads to make me laugh.

"Personality = Diva" : ahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahaahahahaha holy hell, i just cant stop laughing.
 

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I just witnessed a fb with all kinds of posts about "only a black man will do" etc... She also uses the N word and changes her speech when she is with a black man. Funny thing is she's 42, married white men three times and has three white children.
I married a black man 22 years ago. Never advertise a preference, don't use that word and speak no differently than I did before I met him.
Some people are a trip, so what! Get a laugh out of it. Never let someone's stupidity bring you down.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I just witnessed a fb with all kinds of posts about "only a black man will do" etc... She also uses the N word and changes her speech when she is with a black man. Funny thing is she's 42, married white men three times and has three white children.
I married a black man 22 years ago. Never advertise a preference, don't use that word and speak no differently than I did before I met him.
Some people are a trip, so what! Get a laugh out of it. Never let someone's stupidity bring you down.
Here goes the deal, she might deal with an extreme type that doesn't fit her home life. I love her switching roles and using the different lingo. It shows the immaturity in her to be flip flopping like that.
 

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It's today's hip hop culture that has these kids from the suburbs thinking it's cool to act "hood" (not ghetto), when they are not from the "hood" and have no idea how to survive if they ever went. They, just like a lot of rappers, like to act the part, but not actually be from there. Someone who is really from the "hood" might pull their card one day...maybe it will snap them back into their own reality. But just so you know, the "ghetto" is not all black.

For the record , one of my best friend is black and he is probably the most articulate person I've ever met.
 

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My step brother who is half black like me once told me I needed to start dressing "black" (this of course implies acting more "black" as well, but he didn't speak about that) when we ended up going over my style. This was so I could appeal to "the girls who are into blacks". Without that, I had no niche of girls who were gonna be into me. What do you guys think about that? is he right?
 

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They don't always like "hood" dudes, but it is a particular fetish that many indulge in. Some non-black female prefer an "intelligent" black man, but many do like the "hood" guy. It's their fantasy sparked by movies and music.
 

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Obesity therefore limited options + below average IQ + a lifetime diet of "thug lyfe" glorification from mainstream media + her own heritage and culture destroyed and demonized a decade before she was even born + no strong positive male influence throughout her entire existence.

In short offering absolutely nothing of worth to society. The end product of 5 decades of skillful and determined social re-engineering.

Questions?
Not necessarily...I've seen some 9's driving into the ghetto to spend the night at their thug boyfriends house from their suburban neighborhoods.

My thoughts are they are attracted to their I don't give a fvck attitudes, and are intrigued by what the stereotypes are about having huge c0cks...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Not necessarily...I've seen some 9's driving into the ghetto to spend the night at their thug boyfriends house from their suburban neighborhoods.

My thoughts are they are attracted to their I don't give a fvck attitudes, and are intrigued by what the stereotypes are about having huge c0cks...
And the physical swag and body side of it too. It is a real thing. It's why I said body game is huge for us. Still they might want one who lives in a different world from them.
 

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Well in her bio she plainly states in capital letters that "SHE DOES NOT DATE WHITE MENZ!!!"
I've known girls like this, they get together and talk about how they will never date a white guy. Well, good riddance to them, I guess lol. Like the OP says, I don't care if you want to date some black dude, shoot I like some ethnic diversity myself. But to swear off men from your own race, that sounds like there is some damage there, she's internalized some sort of bitterness in an excess amount.
 

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I've known girls like this, they get together and talk about how they will never date a white guy. Well, good riddance to them, I guess lol. Like the OP says, I don't care if you want to date some black dude, shoot I like some ethnic diversity myself. But to swear off men from your own race, that sounds like there is some damage there, she's internalized some sort of bitterness in an excess amount.
When I browsed American girls' profiles I found the opposite. Only very few specified that they would only date black guys or that they were specifically into them, but it was common to see black girls who had some kind of fantasy about white men. I don't blame them. Getting kids with a black man is a good way to increase your chances of a broken family and ruined childhoods even compared to the general odds of that today, which is why I consider girls who specify they are into them to be higher on either the desperate (like my mom who was 36 when she got me and presumably was a leftover) or crazy chart.
 

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When I browsed American girls' profiles I found the opposite. Only very few specified that they would only date black guys or that they were specifically into them, but it was common to see black girls who had some kind of fantasy about white men. I don't blame them. Getting kids with a black man is a good way to increase your chances of a broken family and ruined childhoods even compared to the general odds of that today, which is why I consider girls who specify they are into them to be higher on either the desperate (like my mom who was 36 when she got me and presumably was a leftover) or crazy chart.
I will agree with that about black women liking white guys. I worked in a store in the middle of the ghetto for a long period of time with all black employees and mostly black customers. I used to get hit on constantly by the black women coming in, some of whom were very pretty(although hood rat types) and when I used to hang out with my coworkers we would go to all black clubs and I would be one of the only white guys in there and I used to have chicks coming up to me left and right like I was the main attraction or something...it was pretty wild. I have to say black women are much more direct and to the point than their white counterparts. I had several women in the club come up to me and tell me I look good and they wanted to fvck me, and they said exactly those words. I was pretty much in shock the first time it happened, but then I got used to it and played along with them. Banged a few of them, they were some of the biggest sex freaks I've ever met...actually had one as a plate for a little while...
 

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I will agree with that about black women liking white guys. I worked in a store in the middle of the ghetto for a long period of time with all black employees and mostly black customers. I used to get hit on constantly by the black women coming in, some of whom were very pretty(although hood rat types) and when I used to hang out with my coworkers we would go to all black clubs and I would be one of the only white guys in there and I used to have chicks coming up to me left and right like I was the main attraction or something...it was pretty wild. I have to say black women are much more direct and to the point than their white counterparts. I had several women in the club come up to me and tell me I look good and they wanted to fvck me, and they said exactly those words. I was pretty much in shock the first time it happened, but then I got used to it and played along with them. Banged a few of them, they were some of the biggest sex freaks I've ever met...actually had one as a plate for a little while...
Talk about white privilege huh? haha ;). No but seriously, if there was a place I could go to where I'd receive this kind of treatment...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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