Gray The Prince
Master Don Juan
Just reported this to the mods. Take the race threads elsewhere.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Obesity therefore limited options + below average IQ + a lifetime diet of "thug lyfe" glorification from mainstream media + her own heritage and culture destroyed and demonized a decade before she was even born + no strong positive male influence throughout her entire existence.Why do white girls that date black guys HAVE to act ghetto
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
OK I believe you, I don’t know you well enough to judge otherwise so I’ll take that literally. I do think you asked the wrong question though.Robert28 said:Case in point.
I see this sh!t ALL the time! I don't care if a white girls dates a black dude,
Do you get off on never posting anything useful?LiveFreeX said:Do you get off on being a snitch>?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Here goes the deal, she might deal with an extreme type that doesn't fit her home life. I love her switching roles and using the different lingo. It shows the immaturity in her to be flip flopping like that.I just witnessed a fb with all kinds of posts about "only a black man will do" etc... She also uses the N word and changes her speech when she is with a black man. Funny thing is she's 42, married white men three times and has three white children.
I married a black man 22 years ago. Never advertise a preference, don't use that word and speak no differently than I did before I met him.
Some people are a trip, so what! Get a laugh out of it. Never let someone's stupidity bring you down.
Not necessarily...I've seen some 9's driving into the ghetto to spend the night at their thug boyfriends house from their suburban neighborhoods.Obesity therefore limited options + below average IQ + a lifetime diet of "thug lyfe" glorification from mainstream media + her own heritage and culture destroyed and demonized a decade before she was even born + no strong positive male influence throughout her entire existence.
In short offering absolutely nothing of worth to society. The end product of 5 decades of skillful and determined social re-engineering.
Questions?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
And the physical swag and body side of it too. It is a real thing. It's why I said body game is huge for us. Still they might want one who lives in a different world from them.Not necessarily...I've seen some 9's driving into the ghetto to spend the night at their thug boyfriends house from their suburban neighborhoods.
My thoughts are they are attracted to their I don't give a fvck attitudes, and are intrigued by what the stereotypes are about having huge c0cks...
I've known girls like this, they get together and talk about how they will never date a white guy. Well, good riddance to them, I guess lol. Like the OP says, I don't care if you want to date some black dude, shoot I like some ethnic diversity myself. But to swear off men from your own race, that sounds like there is some damage there, she's internalized some sort of bitterness in an excess amount.Well in her bio she plainly states in capital letters that "SHE DOES NOT DATE WHITE MENZ!!!"
When I browsed American girls' profiles I found the opposite. Only very few specified that they would only date black guys or that they were specifically into them, but it was common to see black girls who had some kind of fantasy about white men. I don't blame them. Getting kids with a black man is a good way to increase your chances of a broken family and ruined childhoods even compared to the general odds of that today, which is why I consider girls who specify they are into them to be higher on either the desperate (like my mom who was 36 when she got me and presumably was a leftover) or crazy chart.I've known girls like this, they get together and talk about how they will never date a white guy. Well, good riddance to them, I guess lol. Like the OP says, I don't care if you want to date some black dude, shoot I like some ethnic diversity myself. But to swear off men from your own race, that sounds like there is some damage there, she's internalized some sort of bitterness in an excess amount.
I will agree with that about black women liking white guys. I worked in a store in the middle of the ghetto for a long period of time with all black employees and mostly black customers. I used to get hit on constantly by the black women coming in, some of whom were very pretty(although hood rat types) and when I used to hang out with my coworkers we would go to all black clubs and I would be one of the only white guys in there and I used to have chicks coming up to me left and right like I was the main attraction or something...it was pretty wild. I have to say black women are much more direct and to the point than their white counterparts. I had several women in the club come up to me and tell me I look good and they wanted to fvck me, and they said exactly those words. I was pretty much in shock the first time it happened, but then I got used to it and played along with them. Banged a few of them, they were some of the biggest sex freaks I've ever met...actually had one as a plate for a little while...When I browsed American girls' profiles I found the opposite. Only very few specified that they would only date black guys or that they were specifically into them, but it was common to see black girls who had some kind of fantasy about white men. I don't blame them. Getting kids with a black man is a good way to increase your chances of a broken family and ruined childhoods even compared to the general odds of that today, which is why I consider girls who specify they are into them to be higher on either the desperate (like my mom who was 36 when she got me and presumably was a leftover) or crazy chart.
Talk about white privilege huh? hahaI will agree with that about black women liking white guys. I worked in a store in the middle of the ghetto for a long period of time with all black employees and mostly black customers. I used to get hit on constantly by the black women coming in, some of whom were very pretty(although hood rat types) and when I used to hang out with my coworkers we would go to all black clubs and I would be one of the only white guys in there and I used to have chicks coming up to me left and right like I was the main attraction or something...it was pretty wild. I have to say black women are much more direct and to the point than their white counterparts. I had several women in the club come up to me and tell me I look good and they wanted to fvck me, and they said exactly those words. I was pretty much in shock the first time it happened, but then I got used to it and played along with them. Banged a few of them, they were some of the biggest sex freaks I've ever met...actually had one as a plate for a little while...
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.